2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

TPF may earn a commission from merchant affiliate
links, including eBay, Amazon, and others

Thanks for posting these pics. The dress-with-sneakers look is one I’m going to try to do this summer. I’ve started to hate wearing shorts, but I love sneakers and wear them all the time (well, not now that we’re in boot season, but the second it warms up enough I’ll be in sneakers again!). It’s the dresses I’m not used to wearing. I’m pretty casual and live in jeans. So my goal is to get a few casual dresses this spring/summer that I can wear with cute sneakers. If anyone has ideas for casual dresses, I’d love to hear them!
I think vintage floral dresses and t-shirt dresses are perfect sneakers! Anything loose and made of cotton would work. Maybe even casual maxi dresses? Tenkrat's outfit was awesome, and I love Lynne_Ross's roper idea.

I'm a dress gal all year round so I'm pretty loose with what I pair my dresses with! Here's a pic of me a couple years ago with a vintage floral dress I thrifted and tailored + plus my beige Vans:
 

Attachments

  • 8B7D81C6-7261-47C9-82B6-53FD53121B6D.jpeg
    8B7D81C6-7261-47C9-82B6-53FD53121B6D.jpeg
    139 KB · Views: 125
My green babies:

My Dooney XL Courtney Sac, which is truly XL. But the suede and color is so beautiful. I use it all the time for work and get compliments. One of my co-workers was even surprised it was Dooney. I loooove Dooney, but I think it had its heyday about 13 years ago and since then most young people have forgotten it. :(

The little beaded green bag is "stolen" from my mom. My parents live so close and their house has so much more storage than my apt that I'm always there and keep a lot of my stuff there, so when I frequently visit it's easy for me to pick through her bag collection :graucho:
 

Attachments

  • B107352D-0BFB-46B9-9E55-B480554F2F72.jpeg
    B107352D-0BFB-46B9-9E55-B480554F2F72.jpeg
    346.9 KB · Views: 125
  • 379E025D-2F1B-4AF3-8308-53667E2DBEED.jpeg
    379E025D-2F1B-4AF3-8308-53667E2DBEED.jpeg
    174.1 KB · Views: 127
send us a 'lucky Seller' juju :pray:
IKR?! I need it. A seller just bought an item from me and wants me to overnight it. But, my shipping terms are within 3 days and I’m going to be busy with work today. Plus, they didn’t pay for overnight shipping. Grrrr...
I love Reese!
That bracelet is goregous. So is your ring!

What are you thinking for tennis bracelet upgrade? I keep contemplating getting one but it has to work with my 3 love bracelets since my other arm is reserved for my VCA bracelet or watch. I have held off getting one cause them seemed dated but now they seem popular and I am dated (older!) lol. It would be a great gift from 10th for our 10th anniversary in a couple years since I am not interested in a ring upgrade (love my original ring and can not imagine replacing it).
Thank you for the compliments on my bracelet and ring!

I would absolutely get a larger diamond for my ring because I’m diamond addicted. :giggle: But, this is 3ct and when I’ve tried on larger ones they look fake on me (kind of Vegas Show girl ish) because I have slim fingers.

I know what you mean on some tennis bracelets looking dated. But, I think that’s mostly the ones with the S curve between the diamonds that were really popular in the 90’s like these. BA4FE7F3-F28C-44F0-A093-EBDC2A59BFE5.jpeg 5CD7F3B9-58B3-4FDF-9206-B65DBEA3B15B.jpeg

Although, if someone wants to give me theirs, I’ll happily take it. :lol:

What I want is a simple 18k white gold bracelet with 12-14 cts of round diamonds with decent quality (excellent cut, SI1-SI2, G-H color) on prong settings. I know my jeweler back home could do a good job and I may just go back and have him make it assuming he doesn’t have it in stock. I don’t feel the need to look at each individual diamond for a bracelet. So, I do need someone I can trust to make sure I don’t get a few duds in the line up.

I usually only wear one ring on each hand and one bracelet on my left wrist. I haven’t done a lot of stacking (I’ve tried because I like the look but, it feels like a lot going on with my wrist.) And, I’ve never been able to get into the VCA or Cartier bracelets although I know they are very popular. Honestly, something about the Love bracelet being locked onto my arm makes me feel a little claustrophobic which is totally ridiculous. LOL!!

If I did branded jewelry - which I haven’t done since I bought Tiffany pieces many years ago - I would be tempted by the Cartier Panthier or Bulgari serpenti jewelry. Which is weird because they don’t fit my style at all. :thinking: They can get to be more of the showy Vegas girl-y vibe that I don’t do. But, I think some of the sleeker and quieter pieces are cute.
I am a huge fan of rompers that look like dresses worn with running shoes. My go to shoes are a pair of Prada that have a small built in heel. Rompers are great with kids and wind! I am not a big fan of shorts, except jean shorts and I hate jeans in the summer - too hot.
Here are 2 pics of me travelling with rompers and running shoes (the second is a bit fuzzy since I had to cut out like 5kids and a friend).
You look adorable in your rompers!! That is a fun casual warm weather look.
 
IKR?! I need it. A seller just bought an item from me and wants me to overnight it. But, my shipping terms are within 3 days and I’m going to be busy with work today. Plus, they didn’t pay for overnight shipping. Grrrr...
Thank you for the compliments on my bracelet and ring!

I would absolutely get a larger diamond for my ring because I’m diamond addicted. :giggle: But, this is 3ct and when I’ve tried on larger ones they look fake on me (kind of Vegas Show girl ish) because I have slim fingers.

I know what you mean on some tennis bracelets looking dated. But, I think that’s mostly the ones with the S curve between the diamonds that were really popular in the 90’s like these. View attachment 4345237 View attachment 4345238

Although, if someone wants to give me theirs, I’ll happily take it. :lol:

What I want is a simple 18k white gold bracelet with 12-14 cts of round diamonds with decent quality (excellent cut, SI1-SI2, G-H color) on prong settings. I know my jeweler back home could do a good job and I may just go back and have him make it assuming he doesn’t have it in stock. I don’t feel the need to look at each individual diamond for a bracelet. So, I do need someone I can trust to make sure I don’t get a few duds in the line up.

I usually only wear one ring on each hand and one bracelet on my left wrist. I haven’t done a lot of stacking (I’ve tried because I like the look but, it feels like a lot going on with my wrist.) And, I’ve never been able to get into the VCA or Cartier bracelets although I know they are very popular. Honestly, something about the Love bracelet being locked onto my arm makes me feel a little claustrophobic which is totally ridiculous. LOL!!

If I did branded jewelry - which I haven’t done since I bought Tiffany pieces many years ago - I would be tempted by the Cartier Panthier or Bulgari serpenti jewelry. Which is weird because they don’t fit my style at all. :thinking: They can get to be more of the showy Vegas girl-y vibe that I don’t do. But, I think some of the sleeker and quieter pieces are cute.
You look adorable in your rompers!! That is a fun casual warm weather look.
never thought the diamonds can look dated :lol:
i am not very much into diamonds, and i much more love silver and less noticeable accessories, because i love stacking, and i love many, these silver bracelets are a mix of all: BV, Gucci, unbranded silver chains, lava stones and 'save the dolphins' charity charm.
i don't take them off at all.
i would not be able to wear that much of precious metal and stones on me without looking kitch-y and cheap, and just one fine piece won't make me feel good :no:
i do have a few wg rings, which i wear with my silver, but they don't scream 'GOLD' at all
 

Attachments

  • IMG_20190218_0958091~2.jpg
    IMG_20190218_0958091~2.jpg
    158.4 KB · Views: 118
never thought the diamonds can look dated :lol:
i am not very much into diamonds, and i much more love silver and less noticeable accessories, because i love stacking, and i love many, these silver bracelets are a mix of all: BV, Gucci, unbranded silver chains, lava stones and 'save the dolphins' charity charm.
i don't take them off at all.
i would not be able to wear that much of precious metal and stones on me without looking kitch-y and cheap, and just one fine piece won't make me feel good :no:
i do have a few wg rings, which i wear with my silver, but they don't scream 'GOLD' at all
K, you continue to be the yin to my yang. :rofl: I would feel so overwhelmed with a stack like that. I just can’t do lots of random stuff on my arms. One bracelet, no watch and I’m good to go!

And, diamonds don’t look dated but, settings and styles can.

I had two yellow gold rings that were at least 15 years old. The style of the bands were really chunky mainly because gold was cheaper then so, they looked dated compared to more delicate current styles. Or the Return to Tiffany’s jewelry. It was really in say 15 years ago-ish. Now, it’s not so much. I kept my yg versions because I love them but, they certainly aren’t “hot” items right now. And pear or marquis shaped diamond engagement stones were hugely popular 25 years ago. Then they were totally “out” and now they are coming back in vogue. Antique settings for engagement rings were huge 12ish years ago. Now, they aren’t the craze but, you can’t swing a dead cat without seeing halo rings.

Jewelry is like any other fashion. It comes in, gets run out on a rail, swoops back around and is rediscovered all over again. But, it’s so expensive and it’s so personal that I think people should buy what they love and pretty much ignore a trend change.

P.S. I don’t think you’d look cheap in diamonds. Come on over to the sparkly side. :graucho: LOL!!! <said in my best Darth Vader voice>
 
IKR?! I need it. A seller just bought an item from me and wants me to overnight it. But, my shipping terms are within 3 days and I’m going to be busy with work today. Plus, they didn’t pay for overnight shipping. Grrrr...
Thank you for the compliments on my bracelet and ring!

I would absolutely get a larger diamond for my ring because I’m diamond addicted. :giggle: But, this is 3ct and when I’ve tried on larger ones they look fake on me (kind of Vegas Show girl ish) because I have slim fingers.

I know what you mean on some tennis bracelets looking dated. But, I think that’s mostly the ones with the S curve between the diamonds that were really popular in the 90’s like these. View attachment 4345237 View attachment 4345238

Although, if someone wants to give me theirs, I’ll happily take it. :lol:

What I want is a simple 18k white gold bracelet with 12-14 cts of round diamonds with decent quality (excellent cut, SI1-SI2, G-H color) on prong settings. I know my jeweler back home could do a good job and I may just go back and have him make it assuming he doesn’t have it in stock. I don’t feel the need to look at each individual diamond for a bracelet. So, I do need someone I can trust to make sure I don’t get a few duds in the line up.

I usually only wear one ring on each hand and one bracelet on my left wrist. I haven’t done a lot of stacking (I’ve tried because I like the look but, it feels like a lot going on with my wrist.) And, I’ve never been able to get into the VCA or Cartier bracelets although I know they are very popular. Honestly, something about the Love bracelet being locked onto my arm makes me feel a little claustrophobic which is totally ridiculous. LOL!!

If I did branded jewelry - which I haven’t done since I bought Tiffany pieces many years ago - I would be tempted by the Cartier Panthier or Bulgari serpenti jewelry. Which is weird because they don’t fit my style at all. :thinking: They can get to be more of the showy Vegas girl-y vibe that I don’t do. But, I think some of the sleeker and quieter pieces are cute.
You look adorable in your rompers!! That is a fun casual warm weather look.
Thanks for the compliment.

Yes a simple setting for a diamond tennis bracelet would be timeless. I am still undecided on size of stones for me. I need to start looking since it will take me forever to decide!

Where is ‘back home’?

I felt panicked the first week I wore my first love but quickly got use to it and I have never taken it off - it has literally been on my arm for 8 years now! I like jewelry I can sleep and shower in hence why I love my gold pieces and diamonds. I also love VCA jewelry since the details are amazing and i find it easier to spend money on pieces that are hand made, beautiful and to me timeless. I also find many people don’t know the brand and just compliment the beauty of the pieces. But it is addictive and my list of wants is a mile long!
 
IKR?! I need it. A seller just bought an item from me and wants me to overnight it. But, my shipping terms are within 3 days and I’m going to be busy with work today. Plus, they didn’t pay for overnight shipping. Grrrr...
Thank you for the compliments on my bracelet and ring!

I would absolutely get a larger diamond for my ring because I’m diamond addicted. :giggle: But, this is 3ct and when I’ve tried on larger ones they look fake on me (kind of Vegas Show girl ish) because I have slim fingers.

I know what you mean on some tennis bracelets looking dated. But, I think that’s mostly the ones with the S curve between the diamonds that were really popular in the 90’s like these. View attachment 4345237 View attachment 4345238

Although, if someone wants to give me theirs, I’ll happily take it. :lol:

What I want is a simple 18k white gold bracelet with 12-14 cts of round diamonds with decent quality (excellent cut, SI1-SI2, G-H color) on prong settings. I know my jeweler back home could do a good job and I may just go back and have him make it assuming he doesn’t have it in stock. I don’t feel the need to look at each individual diamond for a bracelet. So, I do need someone I can trust to make sure I don’t get a few duds in the line up.

I usually only wear one ring on each hand and one bracelet on my left wrist. I haven’t done a lot of stacking (I’ve tried because I like the look but, it feels like a lot going on with my wrist.) And, I’ve never been able to get into the VCA or Cartier bracelets although I know they are very popular. Honestly, something about the Love bracelet being locked onto my arm makes me feel a little claustrophobic which is totally ridiculous. LOL!!

If I did branded jewelry - which I haven’t done since I bought Tiffany pieces many years ago - I would be tempted by the Cartier Panthier or Bulgari serpenti jewelry. Which is weird because they don’t fit my style at all. :thinking: They can get to be more of the showy Vegas girl-y vibe that I don’t do. But, I think some of the sleeker and quieter pieces are cute.
You look adorable in your rompers!! That is a fun casual warm weather look.

I’m with you on the Cartier Love. Being locked into a piece of jewelry feels very uncomfortable to me!
 
Thanks for the compliment.

Yes a simple setting for a diamond tennis bracelet would be timeless. I am still undecided on size of stones for me. I need to start looking since it will take me forever to decide!

Where is ‘back home’?

I felt panicked the first week I wore my first love but quickly got use to it and I have never taken it off - it has literally been on my arm for 8 years now! I like jewelry I can sleep and shower in hence why I love my gold pieces and diamonds. I also love VCA jewelry since the details are amazing and i find it easier to spend money on pieces that are hand made, beautiful and to me timeless. I also find many people don’t know the brand and just compliment the beauty of the pieces. But it is addictive and my list of wants is a mile long!
I agree. I’m all about classic styles now. I just don’t want to buy / sell / remount anything. And, I also agree that I need jewelry that doesn’t require me to pamper it like pearls, opals, etc. Plus, I just prefer the look of diamonds. I do love blue sapphires and may get a dia / sapphire ring one day but, we’ll see.

I think if you want to stack the diamond bracelet with 3 love bracelets, you should go for something that will be balanced. I’m thinking the 5 ct range so it doesn’t overwhelm but, still holds it’s own. When I started looking, seeing comparison photos like these were helpful for me.
(Image from Google)
E0463F07-5CDD-4BA5-A997-9E42DD8310CD.jpeg
I think the touch of diamonds would be very pretty with your stack. You’ll have to share pics when you get it!

And, I moved (back) to Texas a year and a half ago - different and better city than last time I lived here. I looooove it! “Back home” is the US Midwest - specifically St. Louis. Go Cards!!!
I’m with you on the Cartier Love. Being locked into a piece of jewelry feels very uncomfortable to me!
I hated the idea. Then I started reading on the forum about how romantic it was. And, a small part of me thought it would be special if Mr. S and I had coordinating ones - his plain and mine of course with diamonds. Lol! But, I just couldn’t get over the being locked in thing, even though I’ve read they come with a little screwdriver so you aren’t really trapped.
 
Last edited:
I really should be working and am so blowing things off today :doh:

Mr. S is traveling on business and we’ve been texting about getting new luggage. Mine is pink. His is brown and we wants us to have a coordinating set. :rolleyes: Sigh. He is an LV fan (me not so much) and likes the black grey mono. But, hey, you compromise in a relationship, right? So, I went to the website to look at prices.

Holy Mackerel, Batman! :faint:

Are they serious? Is there a coupon? Or should I just sell a kid? A set would be a crazy amount of money.

Does anyone have LV luggage as their main set? What do you think of it? Anyone have alternatives? I thought about Tumi but I’d like something interesting and something I can easily see is mine. I’m open to all suggestions. Doesn’t have to be “designer”. Just great quality and stylish.
 
I’ve seen cute ones with and without laces. And they are worn year round.

I tried to google some pics to show what I mean. To me, these first two looks are a no. The dress and shoes are completely a mis match View attachment 4344836View attachment 4344837
Whereas in these photos the shoes and dress feel more in alignment. View attachment 4344838View attachment 4344839 View attachment 4344840View attachment 4344842
Yesss!
So cute when the shoes and the dress are right - I'm not a fan of clunky tenna-shoes.
 
We are a bunch of goofballs. LOL! In my family we may actually give each other chocolate teeth. :lol:

Those are actually regular Reese’s (not Reese’s pieces) hearts - a lump of yummy peanut butter inside the chocolate Oddly, I hate chocolate but for some reason can tolerate it on Reese’s :shrugs: The Godiva bag had white chocolate fruit kebabs (I still picked the white choc off and ate the fruit. Lol!) and the Grand Luxe box had a butter cake. Yum! But, now my sugar monster is awake and I gotta go cold turkey this week. :hrmm:
Hahaha! Yep. So glam. They'll surely feature us in Vogue with my sophisticated Hello Kitty PJ’s and Mr. S. in his super sexy grey thermal long undies - snoring on the media room sofa, faces smeared in sticky cookie crumbs. :lol:

I put on the bracelet and tried to take pics but, evidently, my iPhone is not set for “jewelry mode”. LOL! Bags it can do so well. Jewelry? It always misses the sparkle and detail. Oh well, here’s the best I can do and you’ll have to work with me to envision its super sparkle.View attachment 4344981It really shines which makes me super happy! (I don’t know if you can tell but, my manicure is super sparkly too Lol!)

You can see that the bracelet is waaaay too big. Probably by at least an inch. I’m sure they can do something with the extra that I’ll love and I’ll share pics of whatever comes. But, it’s fun for every day work / casual / errands so I’m not blingy.

We’ve made good progress on my every day sets. So, I’m going to focus Mr. S on the tennis bracelet upgrade I want for my bday in Sept. :graucho:
That is very pretty… as in ohmysopretty-faint!
(so are your rings tho!)
 
K, you continue to be the yin to my yang. :roflmfao: I would feel so overwhelmed with a stack like that. I just can’t do lots of random stuff on my arms. One bracelet, no watch and I’m good to go!

And, diamonds don’t look dated but, settings and styles can.

I had two yellow gold rings that were at least 15 years old. The style of the bands were really chunky mainly because gold was cheaper then so, they looked dated compared to more delicate current styles. Or the Return to Tiffany’s jewelry. It was really in say 15 years ago-ish. Now, it’s not so much. I kept my yg versions because I love them but, they certainly aren’t “hot” items right now. And pear or marquis shaped diamond engagement stones were hugely popular 25 years ago. Then they were totally “out” and now they are coming back in vogue. Antique settings for engagement rings were huge 12ish years ago. Now, they aren’t the craze but, you can’t swing a dead cat without seeing halo rings.

Jewelry is like any other fashion. It comes in, gets run out on a rail, swoops back around and is rediscovered all over again. But, it’s so expensive and it’s so personal that I think people should buy what they love and pretty much ignore a trend change.

P.S. I don’t think you’d look cheap in diamonds. Come on over to the sparkly side. :graucho: LOL!!! <said in my best Darth Vader voice>
i mean, i would look cheap if i wore as many of them as i do silver, a few on every hand :D
but i don't say i don't wear them, i do
here are my most fave ones
the square chunky one is a gift from my DH for some occasion (can't remember which one to save my life!), 6 small diamonds on 2 sides of a big square aquamarine, wg, bespoke.
slim round is a 0.5 kt diamond, (i went to the supermarket at the mall, literally wearing my sweatpants and shapeless top, needed fresh milk and bread, and right before the supermarket i saw a small shop with a big banner "Diamonds, sale", the guy asked me to have a look, i said i was not interested, he said just one minute, it does not hurt to look. Ended up buying the damn thing! the deal was indeed too good! only i can go to buy bread and milk and come back with a half carat diamond ring! :facepalm:)
the flat band next to it is a platinum ring with a small diamond my DH got for free when he was buying me something else, that 'something else' is collecting dust, and i am wearing the heck out of this freebie! :lol:
wide band is sterling silver BVLGARI 'save the children' charity one, love it, wear it a lot
and BV on the big finger is my souvenir from Milan, i was desperately looking for a ring in big size for my big finger, finally scored one!! :D
see? i am totally careless, wear and mix all i like, don't care for the cost, or metal, as long as i like how it looks/feels on the fingers :yes:
 

Attachments

  • IMG_20190218_2104170~2.jpg
    IMG_20190218_2104170~2.jpg
    142.5 KB · Views: 109
  • IMG_20190218_2105066~2.jpg
    IMG_20190218_2105066~2.jpg
    130.9 KB · Views: 112
  • IMG_20190218_2106026~2.jpg
    IMG_20190218_2106026~2.jpg
    73.4 KB · Views: 109
I agree. I’m all about classic styles now. I just don’t want to buy / sell / remount anything. And, I also agree that I need jewelry that doesn’t require me to pamper it like pearls, opals, etc. Plus, I just prefer the look of diamonds. I do love blue sapphires and may get a dia / sapphire ring one day but, we’ll see.

I think if you want to stack the diamond bracelet with 3 love bracelets, you should go for something that will be balanced. I’m thinking the 5 ct range so it doesn’t overwhelm but, still holds it’s own. When I started looking, seeing comparison photos like these were helpful for me.
(Image from Google)
View attachment 4345377
I think the touch of diamonds would be very pretty with your stack. You’ll have to share pics when you get it!

And, I moved (back) to Texas a year and a half ago - different and better city than last time I lived here. I looooove it! “Back home” is the US Midwest - specifically St. Louis. Go Cards!!!
I hated the idea. Then I started reading on the forum about how romantic it was. And, a small part of me thought it would be special if Mr. S and I had coordinating ones - his plain and mine of course with diamonds. Lol! But, I just couldn’t get over the being locked in thing, even though I’ve read they come with a little screwdriver so you aren’t really trapped.
although i have a few i never take off, i know i CAN take them off any time i want/need.
I agree, wearing something that i can't remove (without a hassle) is not for me either :no:
 
For those of you selling, how is it going? :smile:
I've sold one, still have 3 listed.
I should try it too. I used to wear casual dresses a lot in the summer but I haven't for years. Last summer, I kept saying I was going to get a few casual dresses but never did. I don't like wearing shorts.
I don't mind shorts, but I would like some casual dresses…
IMO, dresses are cooler in hot weather and easier to wear. Shorts require a top and can fit oddly. You just slip a dress over your head and voila! Dressed!
That is truly the draw for wearing dresses - over the head and bam - you're dressed.
I have a terrible time finding dresses because of my height. I've had to settle for skirts and tops - which isn't terrible, but I'd love a cute dress.
I'm thinking of seeing how much it would be to have a few shift dresses made.
 
Top