2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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I hope pouches make your great red bag work for you! I once had a gorgeous, buttery leather bag that was like a black hole. I used it for a week and gave it away. I wish I'd thought to put pouches or a shaper in it. I don't usually carry my fountain pen in my handbag at the moment just in case of an explosion. I have a little plastic case that seems be pretty leak proof, but it's bulkier than I'd like to carry regularly. I need to try something else.
I think there are slouchy bag people and structured bag people. It just doesn’t work for me to use shapers or lots of pouches. It feels like the bag is making me work to hard. I’m selling my one slouchy bag now - though I love it - for that reason. The love just couldn’t overcome the effort it took to make the bag (sort of) work. Lesson learned.
Ugh, I am hopelessly behind again! Gotta go back through the last 8-10 pages and catch up.

@Sparkletastic , I love your new tote! It’s perfect with the ruthenium HW. I was :wtf: when I saw the condition of the box — so glad the bag itself was unharmed!

@ElainePG , re. the Evelyne, why not use a bag organizer? That’s what I do, plus I have an LV pochette that travels from bag to bag and holds my small items like gum, Purcell, etc. Someone on the H forum just posted an Etsy seller who makes custom inserts for the Evelyne that zip shut. I just ordered one to see how it works. The Evie is such a great, easy bag, I’d love for it to work for you!

Re. dealbreakers, I’m almost afraid to say anything because some things that I would have said were dealbreakers ended up not being that for certain bags. Case in point, my favorite bag the Hermes Kelly. I don’t like fiddly clasps plus I usually demand an outside pocket, and guess what? The Kelly is fiddly and has no outside pocket. But I love them anyway. :P

One thing I can say is linings can be dealbreakers. They don’t have to be leather and if a bag is going to be heavy, I actually prefer a fabric lining. But it can’t feel cheap or flimsy. And it can’t have a crazy design. Years ago, I passed on more than one Marc by Marc Jacobs bag because the linings made my head swim. It was like the pattern moved! So that was a dealbreaker.
Thank you for the compliment on the bag!
I’m so behind on this thread!

I’ve been working crazy hours. I got home at 11 pm yesterday and packed! So I’m quite tired today, :sleepy: but I’ll have an early end to the day after a conference, and then head out for a Valentine’s weekend away :yahoo:

In other news, I made my own candles! I refilled a Diptyque glass with a Rose & Jasmine blend, and another glass votive I had with Frangipani & Lily of the Valley. It smells like my spa treatments in Bali :angel: I used LOTS of essential oil with soy wax and they smell so much more luxurious than a typical candle.

Here are as many of my reds, as I can find on my phone :smartass:
You have some gorgeous reds! That C Boy is TDF!
You are so right about linings. I hate black linings because they make a big black hole. Silky linings that some people love are for me like someone scraping their nails on a chalk board. I just can't touch it. Also the busy pattern is a big one for me. I guess their are a lot of no goes for me.
YES!!!!! to all!! Slippery satin linings are the worst.
 
I’m so behind on this thread!

I’ve been working crazy hours. I got home at 11 pm yesterday and packed! So I’m quite tired today, :sleepy: but I’ll have an early end to the day after a conference, and then head out for a Valentine’s weekend away :yahoo:

In other news, I made my own candles! I refilled a Diptyque glass with a Rose & Jasmine blend, and another glass votive I had with Frangipani & Lily of the Valley. It smells like my spa treatments in Bali :angel: I used LOTS of essential oil with soy wax and they smell so much more luxurious than a typical candle.

Here are as many of my reds, as I can find on my phone :smartass:
Awesome reds!!! Your candles sound wonderful. Have a great V day weekend trip!
 
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I think there are slouchy bag people and structured bag people. It just doesn’t work for me to use shapers or lots of pouches. It feels like the bag is making me work to hard. I’m selling my one slouchy bag now - though I love it - for that reason. The love just couldn’t overcome the effort it took to make the bag (sort of) work. Lesson learned.
these 2 categories are French bags (i.e, structured, Chanel, B/K Hermes) and Italian bags (i.e. slouchy, soft leather BV, Balenciaga)
 
I think part of it is that I don't trust myself to know what sunglasses are flattering on me--I have some weird ones that I'm not sure what drove me to get them.
When I saw your post, I immediately remembered a pair of sunglasses I bought that were truly a “what was I thinking” purchase.

They were these Dior Audaciuse sunnies. 550F2ADD-4F80-42D4-A05A-BD4DCD6517FA.jpeg998EA6D9-6ADC-446C-9E0A-AEE46D41F21B.jpeg
I do not sit in the front row of any show at any fashion week. I am not running from paparazzi. I do not laze my days away on my yacht. And, I am not known worldwide by only one name.

So, why in the WORLD did I think I had the life, attitude, friends or wardrobe to support these sunglasses??? :lol: On one of the two occasions I tried to wear them, one of my besties (who is normally the sweetest and most supportive soul) said I looked like a confused bug that escaped from the Jetsons. :rofl:
 
When I saw your post, I immediately remembered a pair of sunglasses I bought that were truly a “what was I thinking” purchase.

They were these Dior Audaciuse sunnies. View attachment 4334521View attachment 4334520
I do not sit in the front row of any show at any fashion week. I am not running from paparazzi. I do not laze my days away on my yacht. And, I am not known worldwide by only one name.

So, why in the WORLD did I think I had the life, attitude, friends or wardrobe to support these sunglasses??? :lol: On one of the two occasions I tried to wear them, one of my besties (who is normally the sweetest and most supportive soul) said I looked like a confused bug that escaped from the Jetsons. :roflmfao:
I almost spewed my Health Bar when I read that last part.
 
Here are my two reds! LV Sofia Coppola in Cherry red with gold hardware that I had on my wishlist for so long before I bought it many years ago! I’m now sharing it with my Mom, but I love this bag so much. The shape makes it a bit harder to carry but it does fit a lot and I’ve used it for traveling in the past. I just don’t want it to be too misshapen. The other is my Rouge Vif Kelly Sellier 28 in Tadelakt leather with gold hardware. Love this bag so much and I’m constantly striving to make it less dressy and more casual. IMG_3499.jpg
 
Here are my two reds! LV Sofia Coppola in Cherry red with gold hardware that I had on my wishlist for so long before I bought it many years ago! I’m now sharing it with my Mom, but I love this bag so much. The shape makes it a bit harder to carry but it does fit a lot and I’ve used it for traveling in the past. I just don’t want it to be too misshapen. The other is my Rouge Vif Kelly Sellier 28 in Tadelakt leather with gold hardware. Love this bag so much and I’m constantly striving to make it less dressy and more casual. View attachment 4334541
Both are gorgeous, but I'm totally jealous of the K! :girlsigh:
This City Steamer is so beautiful and I’ve tried to love it, but it doesn’t make my heart skip a beat so I’m currently attempting to rehome it. View attachment 4334544
Its super cute - what don't you like about it?
 
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Both are gorgeous, but I'm totally jealous of the K! :girlsigh:

Its super cute - what don't you like about it?
Thank you! It's perfectly usable and shaped a bit like a Kelly, but it just doesn't make me swoon when I look at it. And I like having bags that make me swoon! So, no functional details are dealbreakers or anything like that, it's just not one I'm in love with.

My SA is currently tracking down a Mini Roulis in Beton (off-white creamy color) with permabrass hardware for me. When worn crossbody, it doesn't hit your pants so I'm a bit less worried about color transfer than I would be it it did rub against my jeans. And I don't have any light colored bags so this can be a good day to evening bag and also perfect for casual wear since it will match everything! I'm excited about it and mini Roulis bags definitely make my heart sing :love:
 
I’m so behind on this thread!

I’ve been working crazy hours. I got home at 11 pm yesterday and packed! So I’m quite tired today, :sleepy: but I’ll have an early end to the day after a conference, and then head out for a Valentine’s weekend away :yahoo:

In other news, I made my own candles! I refilled a Diptyque glass with a Rose & Jasmine blend, and another glass votive I had with Frangipani & Lily of the Valley. It smells like my spa treatments in Bali :angel: I used LOTS of essential oil with soy wax and they smell so much more luxurious than a typical candle.

Here are as many of my reds, as I can find on my phone :smartass:
These are all just stunning. What a great collection of reds. And how clever of you to make your own candles!

You are so right about linings. I hate black linings because they make a big black hole. Silky linings that some people love are for me like someone scraping their nails on a chalk board. I just can't touch it. Also the busy pattern is a big one for me. I guess their are a lot of no goes for me.
Ugh, same here on the silky lining! They just feel awful, including on my nails.


When I saw your post, I immediately remembered a pair of sunglasses I bought that were truly a “what was I thinking” purchase.

They were these Dior Audaciuse sunnies. View attachment 4334521View attachment 4334520
I do not sit in the front row of any show at any fashion week. I am not running from paparazzi. I do not laze my days away on my yacht. And, I am not known worldwide by only one name.

So, why in the WORLD did I think I had the life, attitude, friends or wardrobe to support these sunglasses??? :lol: On one of the two occasions I tried to wear them, one of my besties (who is normally the sweetest and most supportive soul) said I looked like a confused bug that escaped from the Jetsons. :roflmfao:
Well, that description is hilarious, but um, I like them. Which illustrates why I don't need to grow my collection any further!

Here are my two reds! LV Sofia Coppola in Cherry red with gold hardware that I had on my wishlist for so long before I bought it many years ago! I’m now sharing it with my Mom, but I love this bag so much. The shape makes it a bit harder to carry but it does fit a lot and I’ve used it for traveling in the past. I just don’t want it to be too misshapen. The other is my Rouge Vif Kelly Sellier 28 in Tadelakt leather with gold hardware. Love this bag so much and I’m constantly striving to make it less dressy and more casual. View attachment 4334541
If you're only going to have a couple red bags, these are the perfect ones!
 
Thank you all very much :drinks:

@Annabel Lee @Sparkletastic I’m loving the descriptions of your fantasy lives :lol:

@Rhl2987 your reds are both lovely!

@More bags your raspberry reissue is so stunning. Have I mentioned that lately? :hugs:

@ElainePG everytime I see your avatar I have to remind myself that I don’t need a cappuccines :angel:

On structured vs slouchy, I’m definitely on the structured end of the spectrum... My off duty style is preppy, my work wardrobe is all suits and blazers. With my wardrobe, and my general style, I think I can just about do relaxed shapes (like my soft leather Pradas or Gucci’s) but I can’t do bags that can’t stand by themselves!

Away for the weekend now. Here is a picture of my Coco Handle sitting happily on top of Mr Dawn’s annual Valentine’s box of presents :yahoo:

Stunning reds!

This floral blend sounds divine! You set the stage for all those beautiful reds in your collection. :smile:

You have some gorgeous reds! That C Boy is TDF

Awesome reds!!! Your candles sound wonderful. Have a great V day weekend trip!

These are all just stunning. What a great collection of reds. And how clever of you to make your own candles!
 

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Here are my two reds! LV Sofia Coppola in Cherry red with gold hardware that I had on my wishlist for so long before I bought it many years ago! I’m now sharing it with my Mom, but I love this bag so much. The shape makes it a bit harder to carry but it does fit a lot and I’ve used it for traveling in the past. I just don’t want it to be too misshapen. The other is my Rouge Vif Kelly Sellier 28 in Tadelakt leather with gold hardware. Love this bag so much and I’m constantly striving to make it less dressy and more casual. View attachment 4334541
I like all three bags. That little penguin rocker is so cute.
 
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Thank you all very much :drinks:

@Annabel Lee @Sparkletastic I’m loving the descriptions of your fantasy lives :lol:

@Rhl2987 your reds are both lovely!

@More bags your raspberry reissue is so stunning. Have I mentioned that lately? :hugs:

@ElainePG everytime I see your avatar I have to remind myself that I don’t need a cappuccines :angel:

On structured vs slouchy, I’m definitely on the structured end of the spectrum... My off duty style is preppy, my work wardrobe is all suits and blazers. With my wardrobe, and my general style, I think I can just about do relaxed shapes (like my soft leather Pradas or Gucci’s) but I can’t do bags that can’t stand by themselves!

Away for the weekend now. Here is a picture of my Coco Handle sitting happily on top of Mr Dawn’s annual Valentine’s box of presents :yahoo:
Can’t wait for you to open the box!!
 
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Here are my two reds! LV Sofia Coppola in Cherry red with gold hardware that I had on my wishlist for so long before I bought it many years ago! I’m now sharing it with my Mom, but I love this bag so much. The shape makes it a bit harder to carry but it does fit a lot and I’ve used it for traveling in the past. I just don’t want it to be too misshapen. The other is my Rouge Vif Kelly Sellier 28 in Tadelakt leather with gold hardware. Love this bag so much and I’m constantly striving to make it less dressy and more casual. View attachment 4334541
This City Steamer is so beautiful and I’ve tried to love it, but it doesn’t make my heart skip a beat so I’m currently attempting to rehome it. View attachment 4334544
These are all gorgeous bags but that Kelly is the scene stealer! Whoop! You are going to make me cave on a Kelly if I keep seeing these beauties. Lol!

I can see why the City Steamer isn’t sparking joy for you. It’s a truly great bag but, it isn’t remarkable compared to others in your collection.
These are all just stunning. What a great collection of reds. And how clever of you to make your own candles!


Ugh, same here on the silky lining! They just feel awful, including on my nails.



Well, that description is hilarious, but um, I like them. Which illustrates why I don't need to grow my collection any further!


If you're only going to have a couple red bags, these are the perfect ones!
Oh I still love the Dior sunnies. They just are not for me. Lol!! I can and like to do “glam” and “dramatic” but, that is drama on a level above my Midwest American roots pay grade. :roflmfao:
Thank you all very much :drinks:

@Annabel Lee @Sparkletastic I’m loving the descriptions of your fantasy lives :lol:

@Rhl2987 your reds are both lovely!

@More bags your raspberry reissue is so stunning. Have I mentioned that lately? :hugs:

@ElainePG everytime I see your avatar I have to remind myself that I don’t need a cappuccines :angel:

On structured vs slouchy, I’m definitely on the structured end of the spectrum... My off duty style is preppy, my work wardrobe is all suits and blazers. With my wardrobe, and my general style, I think I can just about do relaxed shapes (like my soft leather Pradas or Gucci’s) but I can’t do bags that can’t stand by themselves!

Away for the weekend now. Here is a picture of my Coco Handle sitting happily on top of Mr Dawn’s annual Valentine’s box of presents :yahoo:
Yay! For Valentine’s Day gifts!!! :woot: Please share your bounty when you open the box!!!

We always celebrate the anniversary of when we first met (Feb 10) on the weekend before V day. Then we celebrate Valentine’s Day on the weekend after.

Love is in the air! :hbeat: February is a great month. Lots to celebrate between Groundhog Day, Mardis Gras, Presidents Days, Black History Month, Chinese New Year, V day, (well, it’s a great month now that I don’t live where it’s cold in Feb. lol!!!)
 
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