2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Very cool!
In case you haven’t figured it out I’m a big 5 year old. lol! So the case I picked out is of course - fit for a 5 year old...well if 5 year olds carried phones. :giggle:
I took a pic of it on my blanket. It’s unseasonably cold here so, I’m working from home, in my Hello Kitty pj’s and fuzzy Hello Kitty socks, with the fireplace going and the world’s biggest cup of hot tea in my Star Trek mug. Yes, I live a glamorous life! :lol:

Meanwhile. Remember, I’m dipping my toes (pun intended) into buying premier designer shoes?? I tried the YSL Tributes and I’m wondering if the first 2 pair I purchased and returned were fake because I then got a pair that are new (but heavily discounted) that didn’t feel like cement on the bottom and are actually quite comfy. So, I kept those. Classy retired stripper r us! Lol!

Then I bought a pair of preloved that were supposed to have a few scratches and scuffs. The price was low enough that I figured, I’ll just deep clean them and take them to the cobbler for polishing and touch up and they’ll be good as new. They were listed as in very good condition (this was repeated in the description) with pics that showed a few scuffs and came from what seemed to be a professional reseller. No problem.

Well... they arrived and wow! They were basically trash. Look at a couple of the pictures I took to send to eBay. (I took 12 photos. All showing individual signs of damaged, torn, or splitting leather.) View attachment 4333585 View attachment 4333587 View attachment 4333588 I contacted the seller for a refund and attached the photos. This cuckoo nut proceeded to be aggressively argumentative. :whut: She literally sent me a flurry of 14 increasingly shrill messages (to which I stopped responding after the first two) in less than two hours shrieking at me about how she wasn’t going to take the return and there was nothing wrong with the shoes. Luckily eBay stepped in and issued my refund. I hope she quickly sends me a label so I can return them to her. Otherwise they’re going on the trash. They aren’t even fit to donate. She is the type of seller who gives eBay a bad name. This is just ridiculous.

In any case, now I’m a little scared of buying preloved shoes. Not so much from this seller. I don’t usually end up dealing with looks. But, I don’t know enough to spot a fake and I’m a little worried that a preloved shoe may not have the integrity it seems to have and I’ll end up with a broken ankle. I think I’m going to stick to finding ones that are new and heavily discounted. :frown:
This is unreal!! You can deal with some horrific people on eBay. Really and truly. Untrustworthy people who just aren't worth even getting into a conversation with. It's terrible! I'm glad that eBay helped make it right money-wise at least.

I agree in that I do not buy preloved shoes. I will buy shoes on the secondhand market that haven't been worn, but not ones that have been worn out of the house. Yes, there are good deals out there to be found if you hunt around for new items. I've seen people use things like Shoptagr to track the items they want and buy them when they're on sale. I've never tried that myself but I'm not on the market for nice shoes right now, other than the pair of Hermes boots I saw on Instagram and then had my SA track down for me.
 
When it came to my iPhone X I was looking for safety, not cute, so after reading TONS of reviews I got the Speck Presidio. This one:
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B074GJD2QJ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Here's what I like about it. It's "grippy" on the sides and the back, so I'm not worried about it slipping out of my hand when I take it out of my bag. It's not hideously expensive. It doesn't add a lot of weight or size to the phone. And it comes in a lot of different colors (though I confess I bought it in blue-black). I just looked, and I don't see it in either pink or red on the Amazon site, but it might be available in these colors elsewhere. :biggrin:

Like you, I investigated cases from my favorite handbag brands, but they all looked impractical and/or silly. I figure that for what I invested in the phone, I need something that works. I've been using this case since last summer and it still looks pristine. That being said, I can't testify to its protective powers... I've never dropped my phone. And if the universe cooperates, I never will. :oh:
Ahh yes!! I used Speck before I bought the Apple one for my new phone! I loved my case and it was pink :love: It did its job and I used it the entire time I had that phone, but the little rubber grippy things did eventually start to come off with wear and tear. I loved that case though!
 
I would LIKE to be a sunglasses person, but it's sort of a waste of money for me. I just don't change them out too much unless I'm going on a trip or beach day or something--otherwise, I just don't think about them! I have three higher-end pairs, one YSL and two Fendi, but they were (authenticated) Nordstrom Rack buys, so I didn't spend a ton on them.

Though I've had those three for about five years, I used to buy only cheap sunglasses in case I lost or broke them, and I still have a fair amount of those. I keep the YSL pair in my car, and those are my main sunglasses, and then I keep a cheaper pair in my husband's car.

I think part of it is that I don't trust myself to know what sunglasses are flattering on me--I have some weird ones that I'm not sure what drove me to get them.
Same with me. I have fewer than 5 pairs, and some of those are ones that my sister and Mom didn't want so just let me borrow indefinitely. I don't do well with sunglasses because I can't see in them when driving (need my glasses and don't want to buy prescription sunglasses) and they actually make me sweatier when it's hot out and I wear them! As in, I fog them up!! Just regular sunglasses too, nothing too huge or special. :lol: :blush::giggle:
 
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I have soooo many pairs of sunglasses. I actually have slowed down buying them as I now wear prescription ones so I only have 3 pairs I wear at the moment. I have not bought a new pair in 5 years now. But would love to get a new pair this year since I have $$$ to use up on my health care spending account. So will follow discussion.
Ah! Yes having prescriptions does make a difference. I don’t wear prescription lenses but, since I’ve had multiple surgeries on my eyes (including implants) I’m careful with them and always wear sunglasses.
I bought other sunglasses but always end up wearing my wayfarers. So I gave the Gucci ones to my dd. I have a bad habit of putting them on top of my head and any others always get caught in my curls. Lol
When I don’t blow out my hair, it’s a mass of curls too. And they always get stuck in there. Lol! I’ve trained myself not to put them on my head. But, that is why I always have to have a bag that will allow me to carry them.
My favorite sunglasses are Maui Jims. I bought my last pair almost three years ago. Eight is enough!
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I love Maui Jim’s. I also have a pair.
When it came to my iPhone X I was looking for safety, not cute, so after reading TONS of reviews I got the Speck Presidio. This one:
https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B074GJD2QJ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09__o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Here's what I like about it. It's "grippy" on the sides and the back, so I'm not worried about it slipping out of my hand when I take it out of my bag. It's not hideously expensive. It doesn't add a lot of weight or size to the phone. And it comes in a lot of different colors (though I confess I bought it in blue-black). I just looked, and I don't see it in either pink or red on the Amazon site, but it might be available in these colors elsewhere. :biggrin:

Like you, I investigated cases from my favorite handbag brands, but they all looked impractical and/or silly. I figure that for what I invested in the phone, I need something that works. I've been using this case since last summer and it still looks pristine. That being said, I can't testify to its protective powers... I've never dropped my phone. And if the universe cooperates, I never will. :oh:
This is great. Oddly enough one of the reasons I like the case I got is that it’s textured enough “grippy”. And the rubber bumpers help with the grip too.
I am totally in love with this case! I realize that I just sent you a terribly ADULT reply to your question of last night, where I said (ahem) that I was looking for practical, not cute, but...

I WANNA A PINK CASE!!!

Where did you find this? Can you send me a link? Pretty pleeeeez? :blush:
LOL! I got it at a kiosk in the mall. I have to go back next week so I’ll get the name of the company for you then.
This is unreal!! You can deal with some horrific people on eBay. Really and truly. Untrustworthy people who just aren't worth even getting into a conversation with. It's terrible! I'm glad that eBay helped make it right money-wise at least.

I agree in that I do not buy preloved shoes. I will buy shoes on the secondhand market that haven't been worn, but not ones that have been worn out of the house. Yes, there are good deals out there to be found if you hunt around for new items. I've seen people use things like Shoptagr to track the items they want and buy them when they're on sale. I've never tried that myself but I'm not on the market for nice shoes right now, other than the pair of Hermes boots I saw on Instagram and then had my SA track down for me.
I was floored when I got them in. And her attitude was just kooky.
 
Ahh yes!! I used Speck before I bought the Apple one for my new phone! I loved my case and it was pink :love: It did its job and I used it the entire time I had that phone, but the little rubber grippy things did eventually start to come off with wear and tear. I loved that case though!
Yes, I've read reviews that say the little rubber thingies come off, but so far mine have stayed firmly in place. I don't carry my phone in my hand, though, which I know a lot of people do. Mine stays in my bag most of the time. So there isn't as much wear & tear on it as there would be if I was holding it every moment.
 
You are gonna laugh about this - it is a Coach but I wanted to give you bag name too and could not remember it to save my life. I finally got it after I searched it by the style number. It is a really nice bag. My laptop fits into it and a detachable smaller handbag comes with it. I love how you can buckle the smaller bag into the bigger bag and creates a cool contrast. You can read more about it here.

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Thanks, I used to buy Coach years ago, maybe it’s time to revisit!
 
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