2017 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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This is me too. Give me a bag that is too small, has delicate leather and a fussy clasp, and chances are I will be head over heels in love!
This literally made me LOL!
Sparkle, it sounds like you had a fabulous time with your daughter! This thread is great, but how wonderful for you to also have someone in your real life who knows you well and can help give you a fresh take on these bags. Before reading this, I would have thought for sure that you would sell your black patent Chanel. Now, having read your daughter’s questions and your thoughts coming out of them, it makes perfect sense for you to keep it.

I can just see you both in the red and pink Prada’s, with the matching red and pink Santa hats. So fun!
Thanks! We had a blast!

I thought for sure the black patent was a goner too! I'm glad DD asked the tough (and fairly obvious) questions. And, I'm also glad I raised such a selfless and giving soul who will sacrifice so much to adopt a wayward Chanel handbag. :lol:
 
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Here’s a quick roundup of my 2017 goings-on, bag-wise. I began participating in March with no numerical goals but a desire to refine my bags by trading ins and outs to get a ... ok, I’ll use the word ... ‘collection’ that works in my life, not a past version of it nor an imaginary version but the one I actually live now. Mostly 2017 has been a year of analysis and understanding of what my needs are and whether my bags are working for me. .

I started out quite self-judgey about the number of bags I have ... around 50. So gradually I parsed through what those bags are to find that the number of my active, seasonal bags is reasonable ... 17 large and small, mostly dark colored bags in Fall/winter and 10 large and small lights in the hot months (whichever those are these days) so 27 total. What I learned is that the larger bags are more used in the F/W and the opposite is true in S/S. The remainder are archival bags that I can’t let go of ... and that’s ok with me ... as well as bags I use only for travel, and a few clutches. These latter bags don’t change much so I call them my “fixed assets.” It’s the active, seasonal ones that I have been working with. In 2017, I brought in 8 bags, soon to be 9. I let go of 13 bags with ease and no regrets ... and I think I may increase that number before the new year. I’m feeling ruthless about my Shopping Bag of Doom.

I came to a clearer understanding of what I require of my bags now. They are out in the city a good part of the week; they bump along subway railings and hit into cement walls; they go on the floor in restaurants with tiny tables; they meet with unexpected weather; and I have to get in and out of them fast. I need sturdy bags that I love to look at but don’t have to worry about. I want my daytime bags to be low key, under the radar types, and I like them to look and feel broken in. Once I really drilled down and realized these qualities, I made fewer mistakes with the bags I brought in. That has been an achievement this past year. Also developing the system of organizing through photo albums on my devices.

I’ve continuously considered how my bags serve my needs rather than quickly buying what appeals to my eye
so my collection feels more curated, less experimental. Basically, for my all-important day bags, my criteria are beautiful, low key, comfortable and user friendly. Now for 2018, I can move into some numerical goals.

I am in the same place as you in many ways. I only joined a couple of months ago, but feel like since then I’ve been taking a harder look at what works for me and what doesn’t,

I’m a city girl too, and have similar use issues with things like public transportation and unexpected changes in the weather. For me, there’s a balance between having a bag that’s easy to get in and out of and one that feels secure in a city. I want some type of closure, or at least an inside zipper pocket for my wallet, but not something that makes the bag a PITA when I need to get to my phone (I’m looking at you, Hermes Kelly bag).

I also don’t want to be held to a certain number of bags. Especially when the “archival” bags are counted — I may not wear them anymore, but they have emotional value to me and almost zero resale value. I have the space for them, so why pressure myself to sell or donate them just to get to an arbitrary number?

That said, my focus since joining this thread has become to really hone in on what works for me. To not make impulse purchases that I will end up regretting, or “almost” purchases out of frustration of not finding exactly the right thing.
 
This literally made me LOL!
Thanks! We had a blast!

I thought for sure the black patent was a goner too! I'm glad DD asked the tough (and fairly obvious) questions. And, I'm also glad I raised such a selfless and giving soul who will sacrifice so much to adopt a wayward Chanel handbag. :lol:

Ha ha! I read that part about her maybe getting the red caviar Chanel and wanted to ask if you’d be willing to adopt me? :lol:
 
Update on

Project: Fall Back In Love

DD swept into town for the Xmas holiday late last night. It was sooooo good to have my baby home!! I miss her so
I am in the same place as you in many ways. I only joined a couple of months ago, but feel like since then I’ve been taking a harder look at what works for me and what doesn’t,

I’m a city girl too, and have similar use issues with things like public transportation and unexpected changes in the weather. For me, there’s a balance between having a bag that’s easy to get in and out of and one that feels secure in a city. I want some type of closure, or at least an inside zipper pocket for my wallet, but not something that makes the bag a PITA when I need to get to my phone (I’m looking at you, Hermes Kelly bag).

I also don’t want to be held to a certain number of bags. Especially when the “archival” bags are counted — I may not wear them anymore, but they have emotional value to me and almost zero resale value. I have the space for them, so why pressure myself to sell or donate them just to get to an arbitrary number?

That said, my focus since joining this thread has become to really hone in on what works for me. To not make impulse purchases that I will end up regretting, or “almost” purchases out of frustration of not finding exactly the right thing.

I completely agree about a secure closure. Commuting and shoppin is a jostling, physical experience in the city. Two Christmases ago I bought a simple fossil bag just for Xmas shopping. I was so frustrated with my own beautifully designed but fiddley bags (and sometimes heavy). It was always a case of the three bears ... too big, too small, too open ... and I so needed one that was ‘just right’, even if I gave it away right after Xmas (I did.)
 
Anyone familiar with the Chloe Clare bag? It's a discontinued style but I've just run across it and think it could be a great work bag.

Anyone familiar with the brand? What would Chloe be comparable to quality wise? Anyone familiar with this model?

And in general, what does everyone think about the look?
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I'd worry that the flap would be difficult to tuck into that metal thingy if you have to get in & out of the bag quickly. And if you just leave it loose, flapping outside of the metal thingy, then the style is kaput.
 
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Merry Christmas to you all! [emoji319] I am spending a week at my parents‘ and decided to take two bags with me: Mulberry Bayswater in mole grey and Fendi Peekaboo in caramel. Moving a bit out of my comfort zone in taking two premium bags, here. But I decided they want to be worn and for „emergency“ cases, there always is a Longchamp. Now, although I thought my Bays was underloved, I registered traces of wear at the corners, yesterday. And a bit of what seems to be denim colour transfer. How do you tackle that? Any recommendations? A common eraser did not do the job.

Leather moisturizer helped lift denim transfer off my Evelyne. Could try that.
 
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@bakeacookie’s request, a photo
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It’s love! [emoji7] Immediately used this today when I went to church. This photo shows the beautiful metallic gray leather a bit better.

Yay! I meant to comment sooner but forgot to [emoji28] sorry about that, Mimmy!

But I adore the metallic grey color of your new additions. They flower is such a nice touch on that SLG, and very you. :)
 
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@Mimmy what a beautiful bag! Congrats! And merry Christmas!!

@bakeacookie good luck with your search!

@ElainePG we can be cheering each other on with our total bans!

@More bags see you next year! [emoji4]

@ksuromax what a gorgeous bag!!!

@westvillage @kemi that’s great! I think we are sort of have a year or two where it’s a learning experience and then things sort of click.
 
Update on my dog search:
Mom wants a Labrador, but Labradors are big. lol.
I want a dog that can travel with me in a little carrier.

The dog is ultimately my choice, but I want everyone to like the dog. So 100% support on the choice is necessary from my family and DBF.

Do you ever get anything that everyone was NOT 100% supportive on?

DBF has been reluctantly supportive of some of my purchases (like my fantastic Balenciaga brooch, my luggage tag obsession, the Kate Spade kite he ended up getting me, and the Bally tote), and has talked me out of bags I used to like (like the Celine bags).

But obviously, there are lots of purchases I just buy because I like them.
 
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