I understand where you are coming from and use to think that way too but as I got older and wiser (at least I think so lol), I started to realize that Hermès bags, particularly Birkins, can really be dressed however you like. I think I was putting more emphasis on style of dress with the bags than others so I decided to just dress according to however I feel and just let everyone else do whatever they want. I shop at all types of places for clothes from Old Navy, Gap, BR and J.Crew to Saks, Neiman’s and Bergdorf’s. It’s all a matter of dressing however I feel comfortable and me making the bag look good not the other way around. I am one of those people that takes pride in dressing well and for me, that doesn’t mean it has to all be high end, ultra expensive pieces which I rarely wear except on special occasions but clothing that makes me feel good, confident and no fuss clothing