Hi everyone! So I recently purchased a preloved 3 year old Kelly (receipt showed it was bought in 2013). It's in Togo leather and it is not the stiff kind of Togo but more of the soft, slouchy kind. I'm a little concerned about the handle. While the shape looks fine at the moment, I find that it's quite soft, as in it will bend in the direction that you pull it. Will I risk bending it out of shape if I continue to pull it by the handle? Does anyone else have similar stories Kelly experience?