Sunday night at 11pm my phone rings and I picked it up. It was a random number but sometimes my phone doesn't display contacts (glitchy) and I figured what if it's an emergency because I don't memorize numbers. I pick up and some guy asks "are you available tonight?" To which I respond "available?!" I'm a completely confused tone. He continues on "I'm looking for an escort, I found your number on backpage." Now I'm shocked so I tell him that I am NOT an escort to which he replies "are you sure?" In a skeptical tone. I was so pissed, I told him I am not an escort and that this is a mistake and to never call my number again. I was truly freaked out but chalked it up to misdialing. My sister was convinced it was someone screwing with me. Googled the number and it came up in red hook/gowanus Brooklyn, very close to where I live. Too close. She texted him and he went on to say how he found my number on the backpage and how I'm lying so she texted him back and said "leave me alone I'm a married woman who is not interested in this conversation" he continued on with some really dirty text messages and then he sends pics and his instagram and says to add him (yeah right) my sister went on to tell him "if you think i am lying then send me the link of my ad in the backpage." he said he couldnt because he looked at so many listings that he doesnt know which one is which and that mine said i was doing incalls in midtown!! I was so freaked out by all of this, I have really bad anxiety and def don't need this. The thing is he has been texting my sisters phone thinking it is me every night since Sunday. He says gross things and tonight he was demanding I tell him he is good looking and that if I were not married that I would have sex with him, that it's the only thing holding me back. I'm getting worried because he is really weird. I worry that he will find where I live or my name by looking up my number or her number.i don't know what to think. Could it have been a mistake and now he is bored and bothering us? Is it someone I know that is screwing around with me for kicks? Could it be that someone who doesn't like me posted my number somewhere? I don't know what to do. I told him tonight that if he doesn't stop texting me I will go to the police. Not only is he trying to solicit sex from a prostitute but now he is bothering a complete stranger for sex as well which is now harassment. If he doesn't stop there will be consequences and he said sorry. I said "I AM SERIOUS." He read it and didn't answer. Help!! What should I do??
there are some really crazy people in this world
