I would try Redken Smooth down products....they also make a product called Anti-Snap that you put in after you get out of the shower to help revent hair breakage. You can go to Redkens web site to learn more about the products!
Moroccan Oil can be applied to wet hair, dry hair, or both. I do both. It really depends on the texture of your hair. I'm half Japanese and have kind of coarse hair, so I can get away with doing it wet and dry. You don't really need much product and I usually apply from about mid-shaft to my ends. I especially love it for when I decide to flat iron. They also just introduced Gold Glimmer Shine spray which is just awesome! But it can be rather heavy so I spray it into my hands instead of directly onto my head.
Also, use only Moroccan Oil and none of the other imitations out there! They are horribly greasy and the actual Moroccan Oil is NOT.
I was at the hair dresser today and he suggested I get a thermal conditioning treatment. I color/hilite my hair every 6 weeks and flat iron it probably 4 times/week.
Has anyone done this treatment? It consist on some deep conditioner then they foil it and iron it. Supposed to last for 3 months.