You stay classy, Mel Gibson!

Oksana Signed, Then Rejected $15 Mil Deal
7/19/2010 2:55 PM PDT by TMZ Staff

TMZ has learned ... Oksana Grigorieva signed an agreement with Mel Gibson for a $15 million package, which would have kept the Mel tapes secret, but she ultimately walked away from it.

Sources tell TMZ, during the child custody mediation in May, lawyers for Mel and Oksana worked out a financial deal for Oksana -- she would get a total of $15 mil, which included child support, a house and other assets.

But sources intimately familiar with the mediation tell us Oksana promised something in return -- that all "evidence" associated with the case remain confidential.

We've learned the "evidence" includes the tapes. Oksana's lawyers had played some, but not all of the tapes for Mel's lawyers. We're told Oksana's lawyers did not play the tape in which Gibson used the N word and made a reference to "wetbacks."

As one source put it, "The tapes loomed large in the mediation. The word 'tapes' was never used in the agreement, but it was central to the deal."

Oksana and Mel both signed a "short form agreement" -- a bare-bones contract outlining the broad strokes of the deal. The lawyers then drafted a long form agreement which contained specifics of the deal, but we're told Oksana refused to sign the long form, claiming she felt coerced.

We're told Mel never paid Oksana under the deal because the short form didn't spell out the specifics of payment and Oksana refused to sign the longer agreement which contained the details.
 
Instead, it seems to be veering into something a little heated. Since we're not going to solve centuries of racial issues via purse forum, can we agree to disagree on some of the more adamantly-presented issues, perhaps? At least we can all agree that Gibson is a colossal failure at this point. :flowers:

The conversation was not veering into something a little heated, rather it veered into something very typical. Thus no call necessary for agreements or disagreements since it was already at a stalemate.

tapes can be edited. photos can be doctored. doesn't really prove anything. all we know is mel is verbally abusive and oksana is a gold digger. i think oksana is just trying to get more money from mel with all of these edited tapes and fake photos.

Like Swanky & White Orchid said, something's not right.

Verbally abusive, threatening, bipolar, drunkeness, verbal garbage, cheater, edited tapes, calculated victim, extortion - ugh! This is karma for both of them. Maybe they should just reconcile!

I feel the same way. I've dropped friends for this exact reason.

Yes! A month into my "first relationship" after HS, the BF began to talk craziness after seeing my roommate's copy of "Night" by Elie Wiesel. Had to let him go and he was soooo gorgeous & smart & charismatic & all that la-la-land stuff, but oh so ugly after that episode. Can't surround myself with friends & acquaintances who feel comfortable enough to speak like that about women, religions & others like that. Thus Oksana knew her man, she knew he would go off like that so she could tape it and thus her calm demeanor.
 
Wow, I can't believe a lady would deign to even espouse such an opinion. If I didn't know any better I'd say you were Rachel Uchitel posting here under a pseudonym.

But then again, I guess that's why 'women' (ahem) like her are able to become very rich after doing what they do - morals are just so passe right? Especially in the morally-bankrupt society called Hollywood...

I wonder if you'd espouse the same opinion of a woman if she cheated with your SO. Don't worry, I already the answer to that. It's always easier to opine when it doesn't directly impact on you.

What a wonderful little society we've become...

Oksana didn't hold a gun to Mel's head and make him cheat with her. Mel has cheated before so he really doesn't take his vows and so called religious beliefs to heart.

And last I checked a single person can do whatever they want, they aren't breaking vows.
 
Wow, I can't believe a lady would deign to even espouse such an opinion. If I didn't know any better I'd say you were Rachel Uchitel posting here under a pseudonym.

But then again, I guess that's why 'women' (ahem) like her are able to become very rich after doing what they do - morals are just so passe right? Especially in the morally-bankrupt society called Hollywood...

I wonder if you'd espouse the same opinion of a woman if she cheated with your SO. Don't worry, I already the answer to that. It's always easier to opine when it doesn't directly impact on you.

What a wonderful little society we've become...


I think that a woman who is with a married man needs to think twice. I would never do it myself. But technically no, she's not the one breaking vows.
 
Well I am going to respectfully disagree.

A man could never cheat if he didn't have a willing accomplice. So to me both are as bad as each other. There is no way I see an adulteress as somehow being higher on the 'immoral rungs', so to speak. In no way.

So whilst everyone may think the Tiger Woods, Jesse James and Mel Gibsons of the world are the slime of the earth, to me they're no worse than the women they hook up with. It matters not to me whether he's the married one and she isn't. They're all devoid of moral integrity IMO.

But yeah, I hate cheaters with a passion.
 
Tape #6 http://www.radaronline.com/exclusiv...mel-no-one-will-believe-you-he-says-after-she

EXCLUSIVE AUDIO: The Tape That Could Destroy Mel: "No One Will Believe You", He Says After She Charges: "You Hit The Baby"
Posted on Jul 20, 2010 @ 08:45AM

It is the audio tape that could destroy Mel Gibson.

The Hollywood star is accused by Oksana Grigorieva of hitting her and their infant daughter in an explosive argument recorded on tape, obtained and released exclusively by RadarOnline.com.

“You hit me, and you hit her (Lucia) while she was in my hands! Mel, you’re losing your mind. You need medication,” Oksana tells him on the newly released tape.

And Mel, raging at Oksana, is caught on audio telling her: “I want my child, and no one will believe you.”

It may be the most damaging tape against Mel yet. RadarOnline.com has released five other audio portions with Mel spewing vile, racist rants, threatening Oksana and telling her she “f*cking deserved it” after she complained that he hit her.

But this, the sixth excerpt released exclusively by RadarOnline.com, may have the most serious consequences for Gibson, as a criminal investigation has been launched against him while he and Oksana battle in court for custody of their eight-month-old daughter Lucia. An investigation by the Department of Children and Family Services is also ongoing.

In the crucial part of the newly released tape, Oksana refers to January 6, the night she alleges Mel punched her in the face and damaged her two upper front teeth.

RadarOnline.com was first to report that Oksana told law enforcement authorities she was holding Lucia, who was two months old, when Mel punched her. And RadarOnline.com broke the news on Thursday that Oksana says she has a photograph of the baby with a bruise on her face after the incident.

In this new tape, Oksana refers to that incident and tells Mel that there is something wrong with him and he needs medication. This is the recorded dialogue after she says that:

Oksana: You cannot raise the child with these symptoms.

Mel: What?

Oksana: You’re acting as a crazy man right now and you have been for many, many months. And you hit me, and you hit her (Lucia) while she was in my hands! Mel, you’re losing your mind. You need medication.”

Mel: You need a f*cking kick up the a** for being a b*tch, c*nt, gold digging whore! With a p*ssy son! And I want my child, and no one will believe you! So f*ck you!”

While there is cross talk as Oksana and Mel argue, Oksana’s team views it as an admission that Mel hit the baby when he punched Oksana and damaged her front teeth, the source close to the situation told RadarOnline.com exclusively.

WARNING: This audio contains graphic and profane language. It has been left unedited so that the full impact of Mel’s rant can be heard. RadarOnline.com has not altered this tape in any way.

And RadarOnline.com also has exclusively reported that DCFS wants to talk to Mel this week. They interviewed Oksana’s 12-year-old son Alexander on Friday. Two detectives from the special victims unit were at the courthouse on Thursday waiting to testify in the closed hearing on the Mel-Oksana case.

This new tape, obtained exclusively by RadarOnline.com, features more profane tirades by the Braveheart actor against his girlfriend of three years.

As he loses control he yells at her: “I’m not giving you my house and you can rot unless you crawl back, s*ck my cock and say you’re sorry, in that order! Do you understand me? You f*cking offend my f*cking maleness, my masculinity, my being, my soul!”

In a tape previously released by RadarOnline.com, Gibson threatened to burn down the house after demanding sex from Oksana.

On the new tape, Mel and Oksana argue over custody of Lucia and Oksana tells him: “I’m just saving my child’s life because you are a monster! That’s all! You’re a monster!”

But Mel threatens that he will gain custody of their baby and tells Oksana:

“You have my child and she doesn’t need a gold digging, f*cking Russian c*nt, wh*re for a mother! We all know what you are! I will have that child, easily.

Oksana replies, “I’m sorry? You will not have this child.”

Mel answers: “They won’t let you keep her because they’ll know what you are!”

He also keeps up his attack that she has used him for money and Oksana points out that she has signed a document giving up her claim to his fortune.

And, echoing the sick racist rant where he told Oksana she would be raped by a “pack of n***ers” for dressing too provocatively, Gibson again tells her she will be raped.

He says: “If you get raped it’s your fault, for starters. Showing off your fake t*ts! Like they’re some special deal? How much did they cost, those fakers?”

Oksana continually tells Mel that there is something wrong with him mentally , and at one point he answers, “You need to say a lot to assuage my insanity because you’ve made me this way!”

She fights back and tells the star, “And you yell and scream and threaten everybody around you. Everybody’s pussy-footing around you because they’re all scared sh*tless out of you.”

The tapes were recorded by Oksana this year. She told sources that she taped Mel because he threatened her life and he is heard issuing several threats on the tapes released exclusively by RadarOnline.com.

At one point he threatens to hit her in the side of the head with a shovel and another time he tells her he will bury her in the rose garden.

RadarOnline.com’s explosive tapes have dominated headlines and are causing public figures to ask if Mel Gibson’s career is over.

Mel’s lawyers have not commented to us on the tapes. They have not disputed it is Mel’s voice spewing the racist invective and threats on the tapes.

The tapes are also in the hands of law enforcement and under seal in court. They may or may not be used as evidence against Mel in any criminal case, but as RadarOnline.com was first to report they supplement other evidence that Oksana has against Mel.

The Russsian-borne musician has photographs of her broken front teeth after she claims Mel punched her and her son was a witness to the events of January 6. Oksana has told law enforcement that after Mel broke her front teeth that night, got a gun and waved it in her face, threatening her life.

RadarOnine.com released an exclusive photo of Oksana’s damaged teeth last Friday
 
Early Oksana. More covered up/demure than we've seen lately.

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The single person is not committing adultery IMO. Should they have principles? yes, but if they are comfortable with it, it's not my problem.

Yes they are, when they are willingly and KNOWINGLY engaging in a rship be it physical, emotional, etc with a married individual. They have intruded on the bonds of that marriage. The person who is married broke the vows but they are BOTH committing adultery.

I feel the same way. I've dropped friends for this exact reason.

Bravo to you!

But then again, I guess that's why 'women' (ahem) like her are able to become very rich after doing what they do - morals are just so passe right? Especially in the morally-bankrupt society called Hollywood...

I wonder if you'd espouse the same opinion of a woman if she cheated with your SO. Don't worry, I already the answer to that. It's always easier to opine when it doesn't directly impact on you.

What a wonderful little society we've become...
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I actually thought adults were discussing this, to even stoop to calling me a mistress type of person is just childish. We all have our opinions regardless if we agree with them or not.

I never said it wasn't wrong to cheat with a married person, I said he was the one breaking his vows. She didn't make him cheat with her. He knew he had a wife and 7 children at home. And he has cheated in the past, so this wasn't a new concept for him. He was the one that didn't use protection and got someone pregnant. No one tricked him into doing any of this. Just like no one made him say all those nasty things.

As far as me having been through this, I have. I was engaged to someone I dated for many years and while I was away on travel he cheated. When I got back and find out I was so pissed at him. I ended up breaking up with him and moving on.

And if my hubs of 19.5 years ever cheated with someone I would be more pissed at him than the woman because he was the one married to me.

And not all people that cheat with married people know they are married(not in this case). And many wives know their hubs are cheating but don't say anything. And that to me is sad, why would you let someone keep cheating on you and humiliating you in that way.







Wow, I can't believe a lady would deign to even espouse such an opinion. If I didn't know any better I'd say you were Rachel Uchitel posting here under a pseudonym.

But then again, I guess that's why 'women' (ahem) like her are able to become very rich after doing what they do - morals are just so passe right? Especially in the morally-bankrupt society called Hollywood...

I wonder if you'd espouse the same opinion of a woman if she cheated with your SO. Don't worry, I already the answer to that. It's always easier to opine when it doesn't directly impact on you.

What a wonderful little society we've become...