Why do you love jewelry?

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There is a scene in Casablanca - just a tiny 30 second throwaway scene - where a woman is selling her diamond bracelet to get passage out of Nazi controlled Northern Africa, and she's being told that the market is flooded with diamonds, so the bracelet isn't quite enough.

Very interesting that you mention this. My father often told me that his mother sold all her gold jewelry during WWII to keep her kids fed (in Europe, siege situation, money devalued to the point of being worthless). This is always in the back of my mind when I look at jewelry. And yes, I love jewelry.
 
I find jewelry so personal. I love seeing the choices people make with it. Also jewelry will be around forever if you take care of it, unlike say leather goods. I prefer to be gifted jewelry for milestones for that reason. Fundamentally it just makes me happy. Intricate sparkles, be it from diamonds or gems, or even well carved gold, is like having stars flashing at you all day long. Pure happiness.

My mom has always side eyed any monies spent on anything except jewelry. She always says that if you get any sort of windfall you should buy a piece of jewelry. Not great financial advice, but I think it's cultural for her since we are Cuban. Everyone around me as I grew up was dripping in jewelry. Be it arms full of tinkling bangles, and long chandelier earrings or hoops. Not subtle at all. I prefer more delicate pieces than most of my family, but do share their love of jewelry and jewelry shopping. No matter what country I visit, I always make a beeline for the local jewelry stores. Especially those that have antique jewelry. I love noting the differences in craftsmanship in the different cultures. I can spend hours just browsing. It's not even about purchasing for me, I simply enjoy looking at everything. It's not something any partner of mine has fully understood. I liken it to viewing art in a museum. You don't take it home, but it still moves you to see it.
 
A hard truth underlying many of these answers: for much of history, in many places across the world, a woman could not own property or control her household’s income, but her jewelry was her own.

I agree with all the answers. Today I wore a $30 b&w wrap dress from Old Navy and $80 sale boots from Macy’s, but my mother’s wee half carat wedding diamond reset as a solitaire, my simple 18k hoops, and my simple 18k band made by a local jeweler made me look and feel put together.

And each piece in my jewelry box holds a memory either of a loved one or a personal accomplishment. Jewelry is autobiography.
 
I have always love jewellery since I was a little girl. I would always love looking through my mother's collection and peeking my grandma's secret box in the deep side of the drawer. My mother used to take me to her jeweller and together they designed something that she would like. She was very loyal to the same jeweller for decades even until I was about to be married, she told me to get my wedding ring there.

Even until now, I always pay attention to the jewellery that people wear. Also, clothes do not stay that long. The brand and the design might be classic and forever, like Chanel suit or vintage Balenciaga coat etc. However, the material would deteriorate overtime and would be worth less than we paid initially or even no consignment store would accept it if the flaws were major and obvious. Whereas jewelry made from gold or even silver is strong and corroded precious metals is rare situation.

Cartier art deco jewelry would fetch higher prices now than Cartier precious stones accented art deco clutch even the original retail price then for those items were about the same. This is because the clutch does not retain the same condition as the jewelry. The inevitable discoloring and pilling lessen the value and can't be mended. Tarnished jewelry can be cleaned.

Once I saw this lady at the diplomatic bazaar, she wore plain shirt and jeans with ponytail. No branded bag that I could see. No makeup either. But, I remember I glanced at her wrist, she wore Cartier tank watch in dark red leather. I believe it is Tank Louis since the watch size is small and she has small wrist. Instantly, she looked well put together. No eye catching outfit, but its simplicity worn with well made watch is worth the second glance.
 
I’ve been fascinated with beads and rocks since I was a child. I used to put glass beads (that matched my outfit) on safety pins and pin them to my jeans in high school. Getting my first piece of designer jewelry from my parents - heart studs from Tiffany - kinda opened the floodgates for me; I went from wearing costume jewelry from Claire’s and Forever 21 to slowly collecting silver pieces from vintage shops, flea markets, and the like. Etsy brought my obsession with jewelry to a new level: it is a place where I can create jewelry AND buy one of a kind pieces from other creators. I echo others in the sentiment that jewelry is a special kind of adornment that adds a finishing touch to an outfit, especially since lots of us may own some of the same pieces from some well-known designers, yet still create looks that are personal and special because of the way we put our jewelry together. Whether you throw on mismatching studs in multiple ear piercings or wear heirloom rings with bracelets you found while traveling, jewelry tells stories in ways that speak volumes about the wearer, no matter what clothing the person is (or isn’t) wearing.
 
I think it’s a way to express ones individuality and also to represent life events and memories.

When I was born, my mom was gifted a Cartier tank watch. There are photos of me as a young girl with my mom and you can see her wearing the watch in the photo. Every time I put the watch on my wrist, I think of her. I have a pair of VCA earrings that I happened to wear in a photo with me and my daughter when she was a newborn. The photo is framed and on my nightstand. I hope that one day, she will love wearing those earrings and they will remind her of me.

I have a charm bracelet filled with charms from my travels. Every time I wear it, I think about all the fun places I’ve visited with various family members.
 
Gosh, I don't ever recall not loving Jewelry, but the 'appreciation' for the workmanship happened at a very young age where my oldest sister (she's 12-years older than me) took a picture of me rifling through my Grandmother's Jewelry chest (I was 3 years old at the time)! My Grandmother was this diminutive (under 5') lady who wore these big-a@@ pieces for her size and that was one of the things I most loved about her. She was passionate about Jewelry and also, passionate about "different" kinds of Jewelry .. not your "standard" stuff.

When I was 14, I decided that given my deep-rooted love for Jewelry, I had to learn how to make it! I was lucky enough to find a Jeweler in a neighboring town who agreed to "teach" me the basics (he worked in Silver). Let me tell you, it gave me a great appreciation for the art form (and yes, I do believe it is an art form)! It IS NOT an easy art form at all; forging, hammering, dapping, sawing using the Jeweler's saw, etc. made me appreciate why good jewelry cost what it did. I admit, I have never been a huge fan of the 'regular' brands (e.g., Cartier, Van Cleef & Arpels, etc.) - although I do have the Love Bracelet and a Juste un Clou (husband got them for me - but I rarely wear them). When I was 16, I decided to get more serious about my Jewelry making and signed up for a class at YMCA (yes - believe it or not) in a neighboring town. How lucky was I that a friend of my mothers had taken up the "hobby" years before and as such, she started me out with quite a stash of tools .. files, hammers, solder, you-name-it .. although, it took me a few years to realize how truly lucky I was. So, the deal was that for these tools, I would make her something .. which I did, BUT .. I quickly realized that my taste in Jewelry was waaaaaaay different than most folks .. I really took more of a sculptural view of Jewelry as opposed to making "delicate" jewelry!

While I would have loved to pursue a pure-Arts degree (majoring in Metalsmithing/Jewelry), my parents actually forbid it (they said "we will not support a starving Artist - gee, thanks for the vote of confidence Mom & Dad) .. so, off I went to study Business and Computers. For years, doing that work in the Financial sector afforded me 1 thing .. the $$$ to continue to pursue my love of the craft but finding the right courses was tough. My move to Boston was the key .. that opened SO many doors for me. In the School of the Museum of Fine Arts (SMFA) in Boston, my professor was a hard-core Metalsmith and Jewelry-maker who was tough .. she expected that the back of the piece would look as good as the front (in other words, if she could see the solder or see the connection line, or if your rivets were sloppy, etc.) .. you for sure heard about it and she would grade you accordingly. It gave me a great appreciation for quality, and oftentimes when I would go to a show, if I could see the solder or connection lines, etc. - then I would not buy the piece! Worse was when at a Retail Store looking at the Jewelry and the Sales Associate didn't know a thing about the technique (many times the "Artist" didn't either - which immediately proved to me that they didn't make it themselves) or the gemstones that were used. Needless to say, I was and remain to this day to be a VERY FUSSY Jewelry client!

It took many years for me to finally get back into the swing of things, pretty much after I got laid off from Financial Services in 2016 .. I thought "oh, what the hell - I've always wanted to do my Jewelry, so here we go"! Now, ironically enough, I originally HATED (yes - hated) Diamonds; they were just not interesting to me. But, after taking the GIA Diamonds course? .. well, let me say that I then had a 360-degree turn and to this day, it is the only gemstone that I use. The difference is that I oftentimes do not buy the White or VS, etc. gemstones, preferring to buy those with unique cuts or colors .. but always making sure that the color is natural, not irridated! While I learned most of my craft at the Jewelers bench (primarily forging), I have recently taken a Wax Carving/Casting class and WHOA MOMMA .. talk about a new technique that I see myself using A LOT!!! Compared to forging, the Wax Carving/Casting is simple-pimple, and allows you to create more hefty pieces with unique textures (you can do that with hammers, files, but it takes a LOT longer).

So, given that I'm "too experienced" for the Job Market (translation: they don't want to pay a Woman top dollar for their knowledge & experience), I've pretty much been doing my Jewelry full-time. The plan is to continue making the pieces MYSELF and hook up with various Boutiques/Galleries here in the LA area. I have no plan to do a "retail line" per se; that would be so boring to me as each of my pieces is 1-of-a-kind (I bore easily - HA). Also, it is so important for me to meet with the people who buy my pieces because yes, there is oftentimes a story behind each piece (had one lady literally buy a piece right off of my arm when I told her about the inspiration - the Roman Forum). Knowing that they are buying a 1-of-a-kind and with a backstory, they love to tell the story and more importantly, have told me that they plan to keep the pieces in the family to pass down the generations .. how special is that????

Anyhow, sorry for the verbose write-up, but I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Jewelry .. can you tell? HA - feel free to check out my Instagram account to see some of my pieces and HAVE FUN!
 
I love noting the differences in craftsmanship in the different cultures. I can spend hours just browsing. It's not even about purchasing for me, I simply enjoy looking at everything. It's not something any partner of mine has fully understood. I liken it to viewing art in a museum. You don't take it home, but it still moves you to see it.

I can spend hours on 1stdibs looking at the different things or curating imaginary wishlists (because I won't probably ever be able to buy a diamond necklace that's the price of a house LOL). I also often visit my favourite antiques jeweler even if I don't want to buy anything just to see what's new in.
 
Gosh, I don't ever recall not loving Jewelry, but the 'appreciation' for the workmanship happened at a very young age where my oldest sister (she's 12-years older than me) took a picture of me rifling through my Grandmother's Jewelry chest (I was 3 years old at the time)! My Grandmother was this diminutive (under 5') lady who wore these big-a@@ pieces for her size and that was one of the things I most loved about her. She was passionate about Jewelry and also, passionate about "different" kinds of Jewelry .. not your "standard" stuff.

When I was 14, I decided that given my deep-rooted love for Jewelry, I had to learn how to make it! I was lucky enough to find a Jeweler in a neighboring town who agreed to "teach" me the basics (he worked in Silver). Let me tell you, it gave me a great appreciation for the art form (and yes, I do believe it is an art form)! It IS NOT an easy art form at all; forging, hammering, dapping, sawing using the Jeweler's saw, etc. made me appreciate why good jewelry cost what it did. I admit, I have never been a huge fan of the 'regular' brands (e.g., Cartier, Van Cleef & Arpels, etc.) - although I do have the Love Bracelet and a Juste un Clou (husband got them for me - but I rarely wear them). When I was 16, I decided to get more serious about my Jewelry making and signed up for a class at YMCA (yes - believe it or not) in a neighboring town. How lucky was I that a friend of my mothers had taken up the "hobby" years before and as such, she started me out with quite a stash of tools .. files, hammers, solder, you-name-it .. although, it took me a few years to realize how truly lucky I was. So, the deal was that for these tools, I would make her something .. which I did, BUT .. I quickly realized that my taste in Jewelry was waaaaaaay different than most folks .. I really took more of a sculptural view of Jewelry as opposed to making "delicate" jewelry!

While I would have loved to pursue a pure-Arts degree (majoring in Metalsmithing/Jewelry), my parents actually forbid it (they said "we will not support a starving Artist - gee, thanks for the vote of confidence Mom & Dad) .. so, off I went to study Business and Computers. For years, doing that work in the Financial sector afforded me 1 thing .. the $$$ to continue to pursue my love of the craft but finding the right courses was tough. My move to Boston was the key .. that opened SO many doors for me. In the School of the Museum of Fine Arts (SMFA) in Boston, my professor was a hard-core Metalsmith and Jewelry-maker who was tough .. she expected that the back of the piece would look as good as the front (in other words, if she could see the solder or see the connection line, or if your rivets were sloppy, etc.) .. you for sure heard about it and she would grade you accordingly. It gave me a great appreciation for quality, and oftentimes when I would go to a show, if I could see the solder or connection lines, etc. - then I would not buy the piece! Worse was when at a Retail Store looking at the Jewelry and the Sales Associate didn't know a thing about the technique (many times the "Artist" didn't either - which immediately proved to me that they didn't make it themselves) or the gemstones that were used. Needless to say, I was and remain to this day to be a VERY FUSSY Jewelry client!

It took many years for me to finally get back into the swing of things, pretty much after I got laid off from Financial Services in 2016 .. I thought "oh, what the hell - I've always wanted to do my Jewelry, so here we go"! Now, ironically enough, I originally HATED (yes - hated) Diamonds; they were just not interesting to me. But, after taking the GIA Diamonds course? .. well, let me say that I then had a 360-degree turn and to this day, it is the only gemstone that I use. The difference is that I oftentimes do not buy the White or VS, etc. gemstones, preferring to buy those with unique cuts or colors .. but always making sure that the color is natural, not irridated! While I learned most of my craft at the Jewelers bench (primarily forging), I have recently taken a Wax Carving/Casting class and WHOA MOMMA .. talk about a new technique that I see myself using A LOT!!! Compared to forging, the Wax Carving/Casting is simple-pimple, and allows you to create more hefty pieces with unique textures (you can do that with hammers, files, but it takes a LOT longer).

So, given that I'm "too experienced" for the Job Market (translation: they don't want to pay a Woman top dollar for their knowledge & experience), I've pretty much been doing my Jewelry full-time. The plan is to continue making the pieces MYSELF and hook up with various Boutiques/Galleries here in the LA area. I have no plan to do a "retail line" per se; that would be so boring to me as each of my pieces is 1-of-a-kind (I bore easily - HA). Also, it is so important for me to meet with the people who buy my pieces because yes, there is oftentimes a story behind each piece (had one lady literally buy a piece right off of my arm when I told her about the inspiration - the Roman Forum). Knowing that they are buying a 1-of-a-kind and with a backstory, they love to tell the story and more importantly, have told me that they plan to keep the pieces in the family to pass down the generations .. how special is that????

Anyhow, sorry for the verbose write-up, but I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Jewelry .. can you tell? HA - feel free to check out my Instagram account to see some of my pieces and HAVE FUN!

So cool! Living the dream. I took a metals class in 2018 and def agree that it is an art... a difficult one! I quickly realized I wasn’t patient enough to do it full time; I prefer shorter term projects... beading, or working with chain and pliers. I admire your dedication!
 
I love precious and semi precious gems and precious metals because I feel like its pure, genuine beauty. A piece of nature you can wear on your body. Jewelry I feel is a combination of that beauty and art. No other object can get as close to you (IMO) as jewelry can. I feel uplifted when I see beautiful gems and jewelry, I cannot even describe the feeling. Different pieces have such deep meanings for so many different cultures. It can be a piece of history. I actually learned a lot about history because of jewelry. i posted an emerald ring I have in this forum and I found out, it was made before the California gold rush; simply due to the fact I realized it was 9 carat metal and I did a bit of research. I found that amazing and the fact that I also purchased it in San Francisco, California (my home). :smile:
 
I can spend hours on 1stdibs looking at the different things or curating imaginary wishlists (because I won't probably ever be able to buy a diamond necklace that's the price of a house LOL). I also often visit my favourite antiques jeweler even if I don't want to buy anything just to see what's new in.
This is exactly what I do. Creating imaginary wishlist. I think 1stdibs have the best selection for highend and unique jewelry among other reseller websites. And one of a kind bags!
 
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