Why do you love jewelry?

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Love all the reasons why you love jewelry! I have to admit I feel a little bit guilty/materialistic/frivolous (I don’t know exactly what it is!) because I feel such a pull towards jewelry.
 
There is a scene in Casablanca - just a tiny 30 second throwaway scene - where a woman is selling her diamond bracelet to get passage out of Nazi controlled Northern Africa, and she's being told that the market is flooded with diamonds, so the bracelet isn't quite enough.

Now, I've always been a magpie. Always have, always will be. I adore the stories, I love how it makes me feel closer to people, I am fascinated about how it lasts millennia, centuries after all else has turned boundless and bare. But I loved the art, and I would invest in unique art pieces, with little concern for the future.

That scene, it kinda stuck in my head. I started to think of jewelry as a type of investment - in crisis, it's another inflation-resistant bank account. It made my jewelry both more and less precious.
 
I think I got it from my grandmother. She worked as an office manager and would regularly buy herself jewelry. She gave small pieces of jewelry for occasions like christenings and first communions and gifted me a stunning vintage gold necklace for my master's degree she had bought 20 years earlier while on vacation in Italy. Instead of say building a collection of luxury handbags I'd rather buy jewelry. The aforementioned necklace tripled or quadrupled in worth since she bought it! Right now I'm in the market for a chunky vintage gold bracelet.
 
I started to think of jewelry as a type of investment - in crisis, it's another inflation-resistant bank account. It made my jewelry both more and less precious.

I recently read an article about a freelance journalist (like me) who panicked because at age 55 she hadn't bought a house etc. Until a good friend of hers who happens to be a wellknown seller of antique jewelry told her "You own like three boxes of fine jewelry, that's not nothing". I do feel if you pick well and have time to keep the pieces around for a decade or two jewelry is indeed an investment and one you can enjoy in the meanwhile.
 
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What an interesting question! I’ve never thought about it before. I’m sure anything I say right now will have been said before but I’ll give it a shot.

I have always loved jewellery on a personal level, I inherited that love from my mother. To me jewellery is wearable art and elegance. It elevates whatever you wear - I tend to wear a lot of neutrals and inexpensive clothes in everyday life and I think jewellery adds a very elegant touch. Silk scarves fall in the same niche, only that jewellery is sparkly and of course makes me look more expensive and well put together.

Today I am wearing a watch I received as a gift from my parents, a bracelet that belonged to my grandmother, and a pair of earrings I bought for myself to commemorate a special occasion. I think that also brings to light some reasons why I love jewellery, it’s a way of carrying my favourite people and memories with me wherever I go!

I am indian, and in my culture jewellery - lots of it and big pieces - is very important. Whenever I get married, I know I’ll be bedecked in a way that in the west would be considered well over the top and gaudy. But for me, it’s also a cultural thing. And the pieces I wear then are heirlooms, that belonged to my ancestors and will be passed down to my children and grandchildren. In that sense, I am the custodian and the wearer of history. It makes me feel special.

And finally, and this goes hand in hand with my earlier point about wearable luxury - it is my rainy day fund. Of course jewellery loses value the second you buy it, but for many of my pieces I know I can recoup 85-95% of the value that was originally paid, either by virtue of time or because of guarantees provided by the jeweller, the brand name or the value of the materials. I never plan to sell, but life happens, and it’s good to know that it will hold its value to an extent in a way cars and clothes never will.

In a nutshell: it makes me happy to look at and to wear and to know that I possess it :)
 
I love jewellery because it makes me feel good to wear. When I put it on, I go from regular girl to princess (haha). The craftmanship of the piece, the gems/diamonds and how difficult they were to cut and the mining of them. It takes a lot of people, and a lot of technology for us to be able to have these pieces.
I wasn't always into jewellery. in my early 20's I was not fussed at all. then I got engaged and I wore (still wear) my diamond ring every day. I really had this appreciation that I felt ready to go out even in my pj's and my engagement ring haha. my engagement ring started it all for me.
I also like how it will be around for generations. I inherited my grandmothers ring and I love seeing it. I hope one day someone will wear the pieces I worked hard to acquire, and think of me. Connect the generations of my family together through jewellery. I don't see my kids wearing my clothes haha, but I see them wearing some of my rings. I hope they wear them and feel beautiful, confident and like a princess/prince/gender-neutral-royal.
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Jewelry is an interesting form of self expression and as others have mentioned already they are little pieces of wearable art.

I also thoroughly enjoy the design process of custom pieces. Exploring design techniques (engraving/bevelling/etc...), unique stone combinations or even creating something that would never be commercially viable (gold & gemstone picture frame/bookmark/bookends/etc...).

Sometimes it’s nice to sit down and admire the intricate metalwork, the lustre of nacre, the light refractions within the crystalline structures or the colour/hue/saturation/imperfections (Jardin for emeralds) of the stones while one is tired at the office.

I also appreciate that jewelry remains wearable despite having weight fluctuations. I’ve gone up and down from an XXS to a M (44 to 48 euro size) and many of my favourite clothing pieces become unwearable at certain points in time.
 
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I think a love of jewellery must be in my genes, my beloved maternal grandmother adored jewellery and my grandfather loved sourcing and buying it for her during business trips that took him all over the world. As a child (and adult!) I loved to look at my mother’s jewellery box and one of my happiest childhood memories is of when she decided to gift me her costume jewellery collection as she had moved on to fine jewellery by that point. DD, at age 4, is showing every sign of being just like me when it comes to jewellery, so I can’t wait to gift her my collection one day. I always bear this in mind now when I make a new purchase as I am trying to be less frivolous and only buy classic pieces that are likely to stand the test of time.

During my teens and twenties I loved costume jewellery and chunky solid silver pieces, then moved on to fine jewellery when I got engaged at age 30 and received a yellow gold and diamond engagement ring from DH.

I started my 30s and fine jewellery collection with dainty designs in 18k yellow gold, mainly from Tiffany & Co before I branched out to other designers and also quality gold/diamond/gemstone pieces from my local jeweller in my mid-late thirties.

At 39 I still enjoy buying and wearing pieces from the bigger names such as Cartier and Tiffany but also really appreciate the more individual, quality jewellery that you buy if you don’t go down the designer route (and at a fraction of the price).

I buy a lot more secondhand now than I did a few years ago and have acquired some of my best pieces this way including both my Cartier Love bracelets as well as my diamond tennis bracelet.

I have a few staples such as my two Cartier Loves that I wear everyday (one or both together), but change up my earrings and rings regularly. I used to wear only diamond studs until a couple of years ago but am now really enjoying diamond/gemstone drop earrings and am trying to grow my collection. I also used to wear diamond eternity bands/plain gold rings almost exclusively but have developed a love of gemstones over the last year, especially aquamarine (my birthstone), citrine and sapphire (blue and pink).

Mixing metals used to be a big no no for me but since I bought my second Cartier Love in white gold, I love the look of it stacked with my Love in yellow gold and this then helps to blend in any rings in different metal colours.

Jewellery just brings me so much joy - difficult to articulate! I am the definition of a magpie!
 
For a long time, I was not particularly interested in jewelry - much to the disappointment of my mother, who loved jewelry. In fact, she also loved to design and sketch pictures of beautiful necklaces and earrings in a note-pad (she also loved to draw and paint.)

Gradually however, my interest in jewelry grew as I started to pay more attention to fashion. I realized that jewelry can add the perfect finishing touch to an outfit and if chosen carefully, the right piece of jewelry not only completes a look but can in fact truly enhance it. In addition, I admire the artistry behind the creation of a high quality, beautiful piece.

My personal jewelry style is fairly simple, but I especially love earrings as adornment. So to sum up, I love jewelry as adornment, as little pieces of art, and as the perfect finishing touch to an outfit!
 
Why do you love jewelry?
What’s not to love?
I buy jewelry for every occasions. I buy jewelry because it is Monday. I buy Jewelry for my beloved dog.
On a serious note, I was told by my grandma, if worst comes to worst, your jewels are your insurance policy.
 
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