Try the small. I have the medium but it can get heavy. I also have the small but it's the one with thinker more structured leather that has a zipper., I wish I got the small unstructured leather tote instead, it looks lighter. I saw a review on YouTube for the mini and it's very small, I don't think her phone even fits.Planning to buy a valentino tote bag, but i’m confused with the sizes between mini and small. Please help