My husband isn't "supportive", but yet he doesn't "scold" me for my handbag purchases. (I'm not a handbag collector/obsessor, but I tend to have many "interests of expense". ) He knows I try and keep the purchases on the lower $ side. Much of his reaction correlates to how much $$$ I spent the previous month. :shame:
I have to admit, my place of work (nursing/head injury facility) helps me keeps things in perspective. Sometimes I'll be browsing handbags online with the intent to buy, then I need to pay a visit to one of the units in our facility and I begin to question myself as to whether I really need that handbag. Seeing a 20 yr old in a coma really makes you question what's important in life and I often feel guilty and almost ridiculous for considering such a frivilous purchase.
I have to admit, my place of work (nursing/head injury facility) helps me keeps things in perspective. Sometimes I'll be browsing handbags online with the intent to buy, then I need to pay a visit to one of the units in our facility and I begin to question myself as to whether I really need that handbag. Seeing a 20 yr old in a coma really makes you question what's important in life and I often feel guilty and almost ridiculous for considering such a frivilous purchase.