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#76
Sassys said:
I think your set is very pretty!! But, I am going to say this. A real friend should be allowed to express their opinion. I personally do not want friends, who agree with everything I say and like everything I like. IMO, that is not a real friend. I true friend will not sugar coat things for you. You asked her if she liked it, and she told her true feelings. She doesn't have to like it, if you like it, it doesn't matter, but I don't think she should be labeled as jealous or rude. If you were married to a bad guy, a true friend would tell you. A friend who didn't care about you, would let you marry/date an a$$hole. If you were wearing a dress that looked horrible on you; a true friend would tell you before you went out in public. All my opinion. Constantly telling you she doesn't like your ring IS rude. Her opinion was only asked once.
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I agree .. Thats why i said that i dont think shes jealous.. Im sure she really hates the ring but the funny thing was i never asked for an opinion lol
My hubby already had pay for the ring and she wanted to see it so i showed her and she keeps saying it looks like a cluster ring 😣that hubby wasted our money coz its bot worth it.. Thats why i was so hurt but now im over it!
 
#77
Sassys said:
I think your set is very pretty!! But, I am going to say this. A real friend should be allowed to express their opinion. I personally do not want friends, who agree with everything I say and like everything I like. IMO, that is not a real friend. I true friend will not sugar coat things for you. You asked her if she liked it, and she told her true feelings. She doesn't have to like it, if you like it, it doesn't matter, but I don't think she should be labeled as jealous or rude. If you were married to a bad guy, a true friend would tell you. A friend who didn't care about you, would let you marry/date an a$$hole. If you were wearing a dress that looked horrible on you; a true friend would tell you before you went out in public. All my opinion. Constantly telling you she doesn't like your ring IS rude. Her opinion was only asked once.
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Excellent post! ITA!!:flowers:

I like your ring!!:flowers:
 
#78
There's a difference between what this person said and a true friend. This person is NOT a true friend. This person has a motivation and an angle that is not intended to be honest and have your back. A true friend can share their opinion and not sugar coat it, but then also drops it and moves on when it's different than your opinion. This person is continuing to harp on it, doesn't have your back, isn't concerned about your best interests and is deliberately hurtful and obnoxious. THAT is why she's not a true friend.
 
#79
Melow said:
I agree .. Thats why i said that i dont think shes jealous.. Im sure she really hates the ring but the funny thing was i never asked for an opinion lol
My hubby already had pay for the ring and she wanted to see it so i showed her and she keeps saying it looks like a cluster ring 😣that hubby wasted our money coz its bot worth it.. Thats why i was so hurt but now im over it!
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ame said:
There's a difference between what this person said and a true friend. This person is NOT a true friend. This person has a motivation and an angle that is not intended to be honest and have your back. A true friend can share their opinion and not sugar coat it, but then also drops it and moves on when it's different than your opinion. This person is continuing to harp on it, doesn't have your back, isn't concerned about your best interests and is deliberately hurtful and obnoxious. THAT is why she's not a true friend.
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Boom.
 
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