This is big for me. I've been saving forever and now it is time to make the dream a reality. I get one shot. One Marc Jacobs bag. I want it to be an everyday-goes-with-almost-everything kind of bag. I'm thinking the Blake or the Venetia. I'm leaning towards the Blake since I'm a mom and having it over my shoulder is important. The question is, what color? I mentioned black to a friend and she was howling, "Don't get blaaaaaaaaaaaaaack!!!!!!" I thought black went with everything. She suggested the MJ Blake in Bordeaux. I'm not an overly trendy person so I can't imagine buying something like spearmint or bright colors. But any other suggestions? Pictures would be a huge help too. TIA!!!