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chaz said:
Peppermint patty,I think you right in as much as everyone is behaving a bit schoolgirly.I went to bed last night after participating in the thread and fooling about,it and cheered me up a bit as I gave out some very personal details about myself out of utter sympathy for her,I am still smarting like hell over it!!! I am usually an extremely private person on these matters so to expose them out of sympathy over a complete fraud is not good.

When the whole meltdown started I went back over some of her old posts,I really should have done that before so I guess its my own fault.
She has continually been a fantasist,fabricator and liar from the moment she began posting on here.On her exit post she said as much and was planning to get worse,after reading it and the mods comments I then felt completely had,the inner panic I felt because I'd blurted out my private life over her has actually knocked me back a long way.One of my symptoms of pnd is paranoia and being extremeley mistrustful, which with the acceptance of some of the ladies was really helping to calm it down a little.Now it feels racked up a couple of notches,but I belive in my freinds on here and I won't be so foolish over someone I don't know that well again and just stick with Sharon and Solitude from now on,with freinds like them I'm happy.

Yes I sent a couple of outraged posts,but after that it was'nt about her,I was just horsing around with some of the others,her name had'nt been mentioned for ages,but I think some of the other ladies on here felt they had been had over by her as well,and it was all a reactionary kickback and letting their hair down.And they were actually messing about with each other and having a banter and get to know you better
play about and learn each others sense of humor and boundaries.
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And from what I have learned about you US ladies,if Bee Bee had got a genuine problem the reaction on here I feel would be very different,you all seem to have big hearts and generous souls and the offers of help and sympathy would have been endless I'm sure.

I was in fact very,very badly bullied in school so would not participte if I felt that the person it was aimed at was ill,vulnerable or just did'nt fit in.Thats not their fault and bullying is like punishment,and were its given out without thought or care it quickly becomes a kangaroo court that follows its own warped rules and people do get emotionally(and physically) hurt beyond belief.So that I would not get involved with,and I applaud you for sticking your neck out like that,it also shows you have a very big heart and thats fantastic and you have a strong sense of right and wrong and will stand up and be counted without fear. If you read back over a lot of the posts you will get a very different veiw of her I'm sure,and if you couple it all with her exit post you will see she has in fact been a manipulative,calculating,underhanded,rude and nasty person. Thats the sort of person I hope my daughter does'nt get caught up with,God only knows what she would be led into by a person like that.
 
#242
chaz said:
Yes I sent a couple of outraged posts,but after that it was'nt about her,I was just horsing around with some of the others,her name had'nt been mentioned for ages,but I think some of the other ladies on here felt they had been had over by her as well,and it was all a reactionary kickback and letting their hair down.And they were actually messing about with each other and having a banter and get to know you better
play about and learn each others sense of humor and boundaries.
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I'm with you Chaz! We were just horsing around. All's been said and done and we just wanted keep it light and fun instead of getting so dramatic.
 
#244
volleyballgal said:
That bracelet is gorgeous but I think some of you are being a bit cruel. Im not saying Im supporting what she did; she obviously is very lonely or wishes she could afford some of the things other members have worked hard for. With all of these threads about expensive materialistic items (hermes, louis vuitton, christian louboutin, etc) I think she became jealous and decided that lying would solve what she wish she had. I remember I lied in 7th grade about going to Florida for Christmas break because all of my friends went somewhere during that time. But one of my friends found out, told the whole school, and I was lonely for the rest of year all because I did not want to feel left out and because I was jealous of the fun my friends had. She might have given horrible advice, but with all of the other knowledgeable members on here, most of it probably wasnt followed. Peppermintpatty I agree with you! Would you please close this thread Swanky? Im sure she feels awful now because of some of these responses...
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That was a shame as you just wanted to fit in,and it backfired on you,you fibbed for entirely different reasons,it proves you still should'nt have done it,but I can so relate to why you did. But this lady on the other had was fully aware of what she was doing and was quite merciless while she was at it,as soon as she had someone drawn in she would pour lies on top of lies,and in the financial area that is just downright nasty.Its almost as bad as mugging old people imo,playing on peoples trust and lack of ability to check her out as its been proved you can be anonymous on here and fabricate every thing about yourself.And to carry it on and on is actually quite evil,especially if you read her farewell post,she was planning to get worse
 
#245
honey52 said:
oh no. lol theres this kid i met in college and i guess hes the same track as me so we have the same classes and boy this kid is a scary like compulsive liar scary. he lies about being on the swim team, his brothers in miami baseball and his rents are both doctors that travel to Thailand to help tsunami victims. Hes been ratted out by his best friend of 3 years, they met freshmen year, on facebook and STILL tells ppl the same lies and denies everything ppl say to him. ITS CRAZY.

i think its crazy b/c i partly believe he thinks hes really who he says he is. i mean, who has the energy to put up this facade FOR 3 YEARS. He tells ppl he goes by a certain name but my friend had physics with him and when they took their quizzes he wrote a different name... how can you lie about your whole life for 3 years? who knows how long ago before that too! but this is worse than bee. maybe shes bored with her life and would like to live out something "exciting".

My heart goes out to you chaz, you were just trying to help. When I tell someone one little white lie and i'm already paranoid that i'll ruin my story some how let alone someone lying again and again about their whole life. Trying to keep that up is so unnecessary!
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Thank you for that and I really appreciate your response,makes me feel a lot less foolish.
But it just goes to show that my private life is now laid open for everyone to see.I hate admitting pnd,it feels like I'm subconciously not wanting my daughter in my life and it makes me so guilty and ungrateful,and by putting it out in public I feel that in a funny sort of way(due to the paranoia I get because of pnd) the whole world can see it too.
 
#246
chaz said:
Well yes actually I thought it was ridiculous,they should put it up as any old riffraff can get in,dear God even HRH Madge might be able to get in,and I just could not have the same bag as her..............just common
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Yes I can - and I bought my HG Birkin yesterday, my collection would now put Posh's to shame :roflmfao:
 
#247
riffraff said:
Yes I can - and I bought my HG Birkin yesterday, my collection would now put Posh's to shame :roflmfao:
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Hahaha!!! dy'know I worried about that on my way to bed last night!! And the time limit had gone so I could'nt change it!!!!! Ooo,so sorry,but I'm so relived your taking it in good fun,I would'nt want you to thump me on the meet next year!!!!XXXXXXXXXXX
 
#248
She was aware of what she was doing, intended to lie more, and admitted it but showed no remorse. She seemed to enjoy every second of it too.

Anyway, DH is out on a business trip so I need a good laugh LOL Lets keep drama out of this thread please? :girlsigh:I thought all was well and bee was history. The gals certainly made me fall off my chair :laugh: DH was like :push:....my wife is going :nuts:
 
#249
chaz said:
Thank you for that and I really appreciate your response,makes me feel a lot less foolish.
But it just goes to show that my private life is now laid open for everyone to see.I hate admitting pnd,it feels like I'm subconciously not wanting my daughter in my life and it makes me so guilty and ungrateful,and by putting it out in public I feel that in a funny sort of way(due to the paranoia I get because of pnd) the whole world can see it too.
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Chaz, you are a such a fine lady!!!:smile1:
 
#252
Solitude, I am not sure what you mean by saying to keep all of the Drama out of this thread? You wrote that in post #248. You say you thought all was well and Bee was history. I would like to believe that. However, in your thread about your new cross necklace, you brought her name into that. All I am saying is, could we just give this a rest and move on? Please!
 
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...well, I'm sure she's enjoying the reaction she's causing, because despite her farewell messages she's been alive and active...she hasn't posted, but she's been around.
 
#254
peppermintpatty said:
Solitude, I am not sure what you mean by saying to keep all of the Drama out of this thread? You wrote that in post #248. You say you thought all was well and Bee was history. I would like to believe that. However, in your thread about your new cross necklace, you brought her name into that. All I am saying is, could we just give this a rest and move on? Please!
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ooooo,I know Sol well through here,she was just having a cheeky harmless play about, she is not a nasty or venomous person in the slightest.So I would'nt read anything into it.If I had read that by someone else I would have flinched and pehaps reacted like you,but because it was Sol,I know its just being lighthearted about it with no slyness or aggression involved,I hope you don't mind me getting involved but I would hate for more friction to happen over something like this

Lots of love Chaz xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

And it will all go away in time.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
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