Thanks Texasgirliegirl for your feedback. I'm (slowly) getting used to their size and like your idea of keeping things simple without a necklace. Curious though if you have a particular set of earrings you find goes best or you use most with the 10 or 20 motif, as I'm still saving up for the onyx necklace, 10 motifs at a time.
I wear the frivole earrings with my vintage necklaces most often.
Next often I'll wear diamond studs.
I love the perlee hoops with the VA necklaces. They have the same beading as the necklaces and are the perfect compliment without being too matchy. The small size is larger than a quarter and they are relatively reasonable price - wise.
I do have matching earrings for most of my necklaces but I prefer not to match the earrings to the necklace.