I love the wisdom from this forum. 
I was wondering if I could get some advice from those who have bought preloved.
I was planning on buying a discontinued piece of VCA jewelry from a jeweler based in Paris. She is bringing the piece with her and we were going to meet at the VCA store in NYC. She has the authentication card and had it recently polished in Paris at Place Vendome and has that paperwork. I gave her a deposit and was going to give her the remaining money via a wire transfer and some cash. DH thinks I'm being scammed and wants me to have the piece verified at the NYC store before giving her the rest of the money (which could take a minimum of a few weeks via prong check). She is giving some push back, saying that she had planned to use some of the cash I was going to give her to buy things while she is in the states before returning home 2 weeks later. Does this sound like it is on the up and up, or am I being blinded by my emotions on getting this piece? Should she be ok with waiting for the piece to authenticate here in NYC? She also mentioned that she has 2 other buyers that were willing to pay more for it and that if I didn't want it anymore she could refund the deposit and sell it to someone else? Please advise

I was wondering if I could get some advice from those who have bought preloved.
I was planning on buying a discontinued piece of VCA jewelry from a jeweler based in Paris. She is bringing the piece with her and we were going to meet at the VCA store in NYC. She has the authentication card and had it recently polished in Paris at Place Vendome and has that paperwork. I gave her a deposit and was going to give her the remaining money via a wire transfer and some cash. DH thinks I'm being scammed and wants me to have the piece verified at the NYC store before giving her the rest of the money (which could take a minimum of a few weeks via prong check). She is giving some push back, saying that she had planned to use some of the cash I was going to give her to buy things while she is in the states before returning home 2 weeks later. Does this sound like it is on the up and up, or am I being blinded by my emotions on getting this piece? Should she be ok with waiting for the piece to authenticate here in NYC? She also mentioned that she has 2 other buyers that were willing to pay more for it and that if I didn't want it anymore she could refund the deposit and sell it to someone else? Please advise

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