Shoes. We need shoes. They are a necessity of life. It makes the feet feel happy.Excellent! But there's the need vs. want. Do we NEED anything we write about on this thread? It's still an itch you want to scratch.
When I "needed," to buy something, I would head to Williams-Sonoma rather than Barney's and buy a pot instead of a pair of shoes. I now have a wonderful assortment of pots and pans. Then there was the treadmill or the bicycle (neither of which worked particularly well), or indulging in a nice lunch. Anything to break that cycle.
When I was just starting out in my practice, I bought a wonderful YG necklace from Tiffany's. At the time (I don't know if they do this anymore) if you paid within ten-months it was interest-free. I stopped going out to lunch. And yes, I missed lunch with my colleagues but I got my work done faster, I was able to go home about an hour-and-a-half earlier and the money I saved paid for the necklace. I never missed those lunches--they were so interruptive of the work-day anyway.
So think strategy! If you waiver, write! That's what we're here for.


No restrictions on shoes, ever. Long live the shoe!
