Is this really something an SA would do? I have solid relationships with many SAs across different brands, but this frankly seems like crossing a line and would freak me out.
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Is this really something an SA would do? I have solid relationships with many SAs across different brands, but this frankly seems like crossing a line and would freak me out.
This is why I love this big family on here! Thank you!! I needed to hear this! I will make up an excuse when it comes closer to time for sure. I would love to buy more VCA who wouldn’t?! But I am trying to stay focused financially especially going into a home build soon and being responsible with unnecessary purchases and the diamond JUC is top of my wishlist above everything else.
As always, your advice is A+++! I will definitely do this. I just feel obligated to purchase if we took him up on his offer and right now VCA items aren’t on the top of my wishlist for this year, and I must not get derailed!! I told my fiancé if I get the itch and get bored and want to try things on, we can just stop by the 3 other boutiques Vegas has lol!
Do you mean taking clients out for dinner/drinks? At VCA, yes but I’ll be honest this is the only brand I’ve heard that does this. I believe the SAs have a budget given to them to swoon their clients. Vegas is a big entertainment city so I don’t find this out of the ordinary either.
I would be truthful with the SA and tell him/her that you truly appreciate the sentiment, but you are saving up for another piece of jewelry from another brand. That way you can stop by, say, ”Hi” without guilt, or not. I would not accept dinner/drinks etc. unless I truly enjoyed spending time with the person and was up front about not buying anything during this trip.
I find that honesty is the best way to go through life.
Interesting. I am in a suburb but have never been offered this and honestly just the offer would make me uncomfortable. Maybe that’s just me!
I’m not opposed to this approach either. Will probably take this route just to keep the relationship fresh as well. I’m sure/hope any SA would understand we don’t all have infinite funds at any given time. Thank you for this kind advice.
It didn’t bother me but my fiancé finds it weird lol. He’ll be pleased to know that we won’t take him up on his offer lol.
Happy early Birthday! Stay on track girl and get the JUC as planned. I know easier said than done but I would resist going into VCA store at all if that means you will be tempted and obliged to buy something VCA. I was getting this pressure from my Bvlgari SA. I appreciate how sweet she is in informing me of price increases and how I can put a deposit and secure the price etc. but the thing is, tempted as I was initially to add the serpenti bracelet at the thought of a price increase, I am not going to do it! I finally had to tell her firmly that this purchase wasn’t happening this year. Period. I told her if it happens, it will be late in 2023 or 2024. See, it’s the SA’s and SM’s job to get us to buy but ultimately it’s us who have control over our purse strings and I am holding on to mine with a death grip
So much love for these Frivole pave earrings and perlee bracelets..they brightened my day on a cold, rainy day
Happy early Birthday! Stay on track girl and get the JUC as planned. I know easier said than done but I would resist going into VCA store at all if that means you will be tempted and obliged to buy something VCA. I was getting this pressure from my Bvlgari SA. I appreciate how sweet she is in informing me of price increases and how I can put a deposit and secure the price etc. but the thing is, tempted as I was initially to add the serpenti bracelet at the thought of a price increase, I am not going to do it! I finally had to tell her firmly that this purchase wasn’t happening this year. Period. I told her if it happens, it will be late in 2023 or 2024. See, it’s the SA’s and SM’s job to get us to buy but ultimately it’s us who have control over our purse strings and I am holding on to mine with a death grip
THIS!! We all feel the pressure of the price increase tactics from our SA and whether or not we are ready to buy at that time is up to us. Unfortunately for me, I believe there will be a price increase for Cartier before August which stinks but at the same time, as money savvy as I may seem, I am the type that will spend more for the in-store experience. I love my Cartier SA and enjoy the purchase experience she offers in store and will pay more for that. There’s just always something special about in-store purchases that’s always meaned a lot to me. What fun is it to open a box at home?? No judgment for those who do, but it does nothing for me. I must keep my eye on the prize though! Maybe 2023 will bring more VCA to my collection, that is if the Clash doesn’t derail my plan lol! And good for you for holding out! It feels like a total accomplishment when we stick to our plans and won’t let anything get in the way of that! But the serpenti bracelet is stunning. I will wait for that reveal
Yes, it's what SAs do, and there is a budget for this. Dinner, gifts, invitations to corporate events.
There are clients who love this wine & dine as it's definitely an ego boost.
For the special dates where the SA "remembers you" (e.g. birthday, anniversary) and sends a gift/invites you to an event, of course it's in the hope you will buy something VCA. Some SAs will say "invite your friends" which of course they hope to get new clients.
This is not just VCA that does this, other luxury jewelry and clothing brands do this as well.
This is not bad, it's the nature of sales, and all good SAs should know their client's preferences and how the client likes to be treated (wine & dine vs. low profile). It's good business.
You look stunning as always. I thought of you today. I tried on the Cosmos RG MOP and diamond BTF ring. All they had was this one and the WG all diamond BTF ring. I wanted to see the look as I would have to do a SO for oynx diamond version.
The RG MOP and diamond BTF ring was stunning! Cosmos is very different than Frivole which is not a true BTF. Cosmos is a true BTF, and it looks like two flowers floating on your hand. It's not as diamond blingy as Frivole, but it's a bolder statement ring. I'm not sure if you already tried it on and did not like it. If you have not tried it on, it's worth taking a look. I think it would go great with your Perlee bangles.
Every time I see RG, I think of you!
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Other brands do it too. Any such overtures have made me very uncomfortable. Like @PC1984 it has always freaked me out when they do this. Yes, I want service but I also want it low-key. At VCA my SA understands what I want (I usually email/text ahead) has it ready for me and either she ships or it's a quick in-and-out. This keeps it simple, fresh and businesslike.
In terms of gratuities, the most I want are their little boxes of chocolates-we joke they're about $5,000 a piece! There's no social relationship to complicate things and I don't have a sense of obligation.
On the other hand, my SA does know a little about me--as a result, she has made recommendations appropriate to my budget, lifestyle and collection. However, it is not a social event, for the SA or for me.
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