The butterfly looks stunning on you! I had dismissed those silly dainty butterflies too, but they keep buzzing in my head!
Seeing your photo, they are not silly nor dainty. They have a lot of presence on your ears. My ears are small and my ear piercing is low, so they will look a bit larger on me which is good.
Okay... maybe I need to put butterflies back on my list! Did you try on a butterfly ring? On which earrings, I love pave, but I also love the quirkiness of unmatched earrings. If you decide to get a ring, that quirkiness will really be a fun look.
On priority, I vote get the 20 first... the 20 pops! Butterfly earrings are nice, but they will not pop as much as the 20. You cannot miss a 20 when worn... it's iconic VCA. It's very versatile too... looks best with a striped tee and shorts!
Thanks for sharing these photos! I see that necklace popping out too! I vote 20!