I had to do the same! My Frivole earrings felt tight, my earlobes hurt, but also, the posts were too thick for my ear piercing.
On my earrings, I had the clip tension loosened and the posts swapped out to the thinner post. Just FYI on the post in case your ear piercing hole starts to get sore. Now, I wear my earrings all da without really feeling them. Prior, they hurt only after a few hours.
Woo hoo! I am so glad we're all loving Frivole! It is my favorte collection of all time! I really really want one more piece to make a set of 3. I hope perhaps VCA will come out with more pieces this fall... and in WG! There has been too much love for PG... you get everything in PG!

Time for some new Frivole WG pieces!