I am a fan of gents watches on ladies, but i agree with previous comments that the face almost looks a little too big on your wrist.
No matter how much of a discount you got on it, doesn't sound like you'll wear it.
You should return it if you are having any hesitation about wearing it. IMO, if you aren't going to wear it, then it isn't worth having. Plus, I'm positive you will eventually find one that you absolutely love! Good luck!
I in in the minority here, but I love it! I love men's size watches on women and I think it looks fab on you! But, you need to love it too and if you don't you should return it.
I really like the watch but the dual colors limits the versatility of the piece, IMO.
I also would not get it painted. Could you just buy a black version of the same watch and return that one?
I wouldn't say it makes your arm look fat, but the watch itself is just too big on you. I'd return it and go for something a little smaller. Michael Kors has some smaller mens-y type watches.
i have to agree w/ your sis....i personally love big face watches however i think the face is a bit big for your wrist. if you're not happy you should most definitely return it.