Hello this is my first post so I hope the pictures attach. I feel differently to most people, I notice the trinity with 5 diamonds doesn't have much love, I too was deciding between plain and with diamond. I think the diamond version is exxy for the size of the diamonds but they really do sparkle and add something extra. I like that the diamonds will still sparkle once the ring is scratched. It is sometimes nice to have something a bit different too. Both are lovely I'm sure you will enjoy either!