This is a post that I would really like Megs to respond to, please.
I have been an active tPFer for the past seven years. On the whole, I have enjoyed being a part of the forum and I have made some wonderful friends here - some of whom have gone on to be IRL friends.
Have there been things about tPF that have upset or annoyed me during this time? Of course there have, but I recognise that The Purse Forum is a business - ultimately the aim is to make a profit for the owners. Just as it should. We all know that in business, you will sometimes lose employees (in this case, members) and although it can be upsetting to lose good people, it is the nature of any business. Someone else comes along to fill the gap and life goes on.
Anyway - I think it's fair to say that in my time as a member here, I have not been one to court drama or snarkiness. In those threads where there has been unpleasantness, I've kept my head down - not poking my nose too far above the parapet. I mention this as I would like you to understand this post is not one I am making on a whim - I have given some thought on whether I should post here at all.
Up until recently, I thougt tPF was a safe, happy place where people were treated with respect.
This thread has been a real eye-opener for me - which brings me to the point of this post. I simply do not understand why the member who was so offensive to one of our authenticators (from memory, this was happening as recently as February this year) that the authenticator left, why this member - in a move clearly sanctioned by mods and admin - is now authenticating here herself. I am genuinely puzzled as to how this could be allowed. I would love to hear an explanation because at the moment, this decision is telling me there is no loyalty towards those who have done their best to help at tPF and no support for members who are verbally abused here. A NastyGram and a warning are not enough when members are being insulting and rude to others, let alone rewarding them for such behaviour. In my opinion, this is a decision that does not show tPF in a good light. I would go further and say I believe this has cost the board a significant part of its integrity.
I hope (but doubt) this post will be allowed to stand unedited - if it is allowed to stand at all. I would like to point out I am just stating my own opinion, albeit one that I am given to understand is shared by many other members here.
Hi
clevercat, and thank you for your thoughtful post. I am not Megs, but would like to answer you from my point of view. Hopefully she will chime in when she can.
You are right. If this forum wasn't a business it would not exist. Megs and Vlad work really hard to maintain it and keep it running not just for their livelihood, but out of sincere love for the forum and its members. It is a gift when making a living and engaging in your passion converge. They are lucky – and we are lucky as a result. Anyone who points a nasty finger at the "money-making" aspect, is only seeing a limited side of this forum. Greed is not the motivator here and anyone who understands business can see that.
In regards to the backstory that is circling around the rumor mills. tPF
cannot act on suspicion and rumor of activities
outside of tPF. We have to act on what happens here – things we can see. To do otherwise is irresponsible and unfair to
anyone and
everyone who may become the target of unwarranted and unfair accusations.
That one member suspects another of doing something outside of the forum and that issue is brought here with no proof or substantiation, is just not something we can take as a tPF issue. Again, this is out of fairness to
all of our members. We would not take action on or even judge any or our members based on rumblings. The internet is full of them and we must be diligent to not be seduced by them. We are aware there is a lot of chat off the boards about this, but it is still not our place to partake. In fact, the action that the rumors are based in took place off the board was heavily targeted to hurt a tPF admin/mod, and she stated again and again, she does not want to air it here. That is her prerogative, and we owe her that consideration. For that we ask for everyone's understanding. We would do the same for all of you.
I'm sorry if it appears the forum is not supporting its members or appreciating its authenticators. In fact, we dedicate a large portion of our days to doing exactly this. Have mistakes and oversights been made in the past? Yes. There have been apologies upon apologies for this and Megs is working very hard to accommodate authenticators in ways you may not see. That authenticators are rarely partaking in this thread anymore is a testament to that. Also, several new forum mods, including one in Chanel, and two global mods were also added to the team (littlerock and myself) to help us maintain a greater presence and awareness of the forum as a whole. The more we know about what happens
here, the better we can help.
For the record, the forum does not choose or sanction authenticators. They choose the forum. We don't appoint them. They come and join in the the auth threads at their own accord. And as long as they show they know what they are doing, we support them. It's about the work they do, and their contribution to the community. For that, they will all always have our support.