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I'm not sure you really understood my point...

1. the response was from a girl i dont even know, and this was her perception of tpf. it was more to provide an example to show how outsiders feel about tpf. the fact that there are people who even feel like they're outsiders and not a part of the community, doesn't make people care enough to follow the culture of the community
2. trust is a belief system. to say you are trustworthy doesn't make you trustworthy, epecially if a person doesn't know who you are. A community might establish trust with each other over a period of time based on experience, but you can't expect an outsider to provision the same trust - that's the fundamental reason why there are issues in the AT forums. An outsider doesn't actually know who to trust and why someone should be trusted or should not be trusted. A lot of newbies don't understand why they should or should trust an authenticator on this forum, hence why there are unreasonable and rude requests, and sometimes even finger pointing: they're not a part of the community that has already established the trust with each other. Getting mad at an outsider for not being a part of the community but is taking advantage of the community that welcomes newcomers is paradoxical.
Posting a format at the beginning of the thread doesn't always work. I was suggesting a format where a user is obligated/forced to follow the format. A form to fill out that requires all the information asked.
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