have heard lots of stories about Tiffany's SA especially at the Ala Moana boutique being very snobby and downright rude. then i experienced it myself twice on different buying occasions. i may have been buying 'just silver' pieces but they should remember customers are why they have a job in the first place.
switched to the Waikiki boutique and they were much nicer and customer oriented there. one of our friends wrote a letter to the manager about his bad shopping experience looking for an engagement ring but was ignored so it's not surprising that their attitude trickles down from the top on down. sorry you had that experience after your long day at work and wanting to spend some hard earned money to receive attitude like that.
I'm also from Hawaii, and maybe I just haven't been in the store as often as you have, but I'm really shocked that this happened to you.
The first time I went in Tiffany's was when I was 13, with my cousin. We were clearly not there to purchase, but there was a kindly older saleswoman. She humored our questions, showed us different silver pieces, and when we were about to leave, gave us catalogues in little blue bags. At 13, it left a big impression on me, and I couldn't wait until I was old enough to leave with a real purchase.
I'm 20 now. Since then I've been there multiple times, sometimes to purchase, other times just to browse, but I've never been treated rudely by a salesperson there. Granted, I'm from Hilo, so you may have visited the store there more than I have, but I've been there at least 10 times and haven't had any trouble. I have had one slightly rude experience in Seattle, but that's another story.
I'm sorry you've had such a negative experience there. There are some really great SA's out there. But some, quite frankly, should not be in the customer service business at all, let alone working in a store that prides itself on it.