Mine hits my thighI tried a little ribbon to tie mine and then it was a little too short.... and I'm short!! I have gotten used to it being long, hits my hip.

Did you just use regular black thread, like the thread you'd find in a sewing kit? Mine is white so it's a little obvious (my bag is a midnight blue).I didn't like using the clip because I was afraid it'll mess up the leather. I simply use black thread instead. I looped within the two holes I selected multiple times and it stays perfectly intact. You can't even see it because it blends with the bag.