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That's because Louboutins usually squeeze worse when sitting than when walking. Walking in them exercises and stretches the leather. Sitting in them allows the leather to shrink back to their brand-new-from-the-box shape, particularly when they're new. It takes a month or two, I've found, for the leather to "remember" their new shape and not to shrink back. Until that happens, sitting is always worse than standing, and standing is always worse than walking. Counter-intuitive, I know! But that's because Loubies are among the stretchiest high heels I know. The shoe that comes brand new out of the box is nothing like the shoe you have after two months of daily wear. Apples and pears. Which is why the break-in process MUST involve lots of walking at home, and lots of endurance, even pain, before they're ready for prime time.
One of the miracles that I like about Louboutin is that, once they're broken in, the pressure is very uniform. There's almost never a problem with the little toe feeling squished or the big toe feeling squished. The squishing is uniform across all of the toes. Yes, it's still tight, and yes, it's still uncomfortable, and yes, there's still some pain. But it's a dull ache, more of a distant roar than an unbearable barking! The same with the fit in the heel. It either fits right or they're too big and I start to get heel slippage; I almost NEVER get a heel bite in Loubies. I suspect this is because Loubies use such soft leather, and stretch so much. Double-edged sword, of course, because you can get Loubies that feel kinda sorta O.K. brand new but end up being unwearable because they've stretched too much in the heel. Which is why I always, ALWAYS, buy Loubies tight, not loose.
Uh-oh. If you have to use heel gripper even when they're brand new, that's a bad sign. New Loubies should NEVER be loose in the heel. That's a dead giveaway that they'll be too big and unwearable, once they're broken in. Loubies should always fit the heel perfectly when brand new, and always squeeze and torture the toes when brand new. Loubies are also the stretchiest high heels there are, I think. A brand new Loubie doesn't fit anything like a Loubie that's been worn at home every day for an hour for two months (which is my breakin method).
Trust me: By the time the shoes are broken in they will have been worn plenty of times! That's a horse that has usually left the stable long before the shoes are properly broken in. That's unavoidable.
A wise decision. I've found that the Louboutin heel cup can sometimes get too loose just by looking at them funny; very finicky, and a really quick way to render the shoe unwearable and a total loss if you're not careful.
You wrote: "now they are lil too big in the back"
I've found vaseline, in and of itself, is sometimes all you need to do, although I have to be persistent and apply it at least twice a week for at least a month.
I hate to say this, but you did exactly the wrong thing. You see, Louboutins don't stretch unless you walk in them. If you just wear them while sitting, they won't stretch at all, and the pain will simply get worse and worse, as the shoe will actually SHRINK, from lack of pressure, back to the way it was when it was brand new. It's a vicious circle; your feet then become sore, and, worse still, spots that are even more sore develop on your toes, making the shoes even more painful. So the first thing anyone should do after an experience like that is give your feet a few days to recover by not wearing heels, or torturing them, at all. After your feet have recovered, wear the offending shoes ONLY AT HOME for about an hour a day, and keep that up for a month or two; occasional applications of lotion or vaseline to the tight spots also sometimes helps. I've found that's the best way to solve this problem. Do it slow and steady; yes, there will still be pain, particularly at first, but at the end of the process you'll have a comfortable pair of heels that you will be able to wear for hours at a time. They'll never be truly comfortable, and they will always hurt a little, but at least the pain will subside to a dull roar rather than a deafening scream!
