They also had some black caviar with
unfortunately I don’t have any brushed gold hardware pieces, so I won’t be much help there. If you are happy with overall look/feel of the bag, then maybe you can just enjoy it? When I was choosing my boy, I was open to any hardware as long as it was caviar to my liking (not too shiny buy not too matte). Yorkdale boutique had 3 RHW and 3 BGHW old medium boys (all black caviar) so I went with the one I liked the most leather wise. since brushed gold hardware meant to look aged already, I am assuming any wear/scuffing would be less noticeable (hopefully). I have read people mentioning their experiences with RHW peeling off so one never knows. I don’t think perfect bag exists, but if you find one close to it - it’s a win in my book