My honest thoughts....thank you!!! they’re so stunning in person. I worry they may not age well (may be too young-looking) but I cannot stop staring at them, also they are amazingly light and comfortable (important!)
I am going to Paris in a few weeks and have asked my SA there to pull some things for me there: 3 motif vendome edition earrings (i have the bracelet and pendant, so a nice set), 3 motif chalcedony/wmop/gmop earrings (have the 16 motif so a nice set as well, even though I would probably wear them separately), the tigers eye 2 motif lucky butterfly earrings (maybe redundant with these?) and the YG lucky bracelet. Depending on how that haul goes will impact my budget and how comfortable I would be spending on the ring as well.
When I lie the earring on my finger to mimic a BTF, I like it, but I think I would actually prefer a dual stone situation (wmop/gmop or maybe gmop/onyx, onyx/wmop, or the tigers eye version?)
I think they are very pretty, but I also think they are very "cute & young" looking. It's the dangling butterfly that makes it look cute & young vs. the stud butterfly version. This is not a bad thing. There is no such thing as a bad jewelry design, it's more if this design is the look you want.
I see you are hesitating which is why I am sharing my thoughts...
I personally think you might tire of them after a while because cute may not really be your look. For me, cute is definitely not my look, and especially for jewelry, I prefer a more elegant look.
Jewelry is 100% preference, so yes, buy what you love. However, I think jewelry is also very tied to one's personal style and look.
If your take off the VCA logo on these earrings, I see these earrings as something from Claire's that a teenager would buy. For me, I would feel a bit childish wearing these. For a butterfly earring, I would choose the classic studs over these dangling one. That's just me.
Again though, it's 100% preference which is why there are infinite styles of jewelry. I would think about your look and if these earrings are really you.
Just my two cents for what it's worth. Hope this was helpful for something to think about it. Good luck in your decision.