i'm so sorry someone came through and wrecked your life like that. i really don't know what to say about the handbag. i NEVER leave my bags in my car, just because.... i am SUPER DUPER paranoid. i also feel you on the paranoia about people having your info. i ALSO feel your pain on the whole STUPID MEN issue.
just know you're not alone, and what doesn't kill you in the long run, will make you stronger.
don't let this break you, seriously. i've been lower than that, and we all have at one point or another. this place has given me so much strength and taught me so much about myself, i coudnl't even begin to tell you how it's changed my life.
this place is full of supportive loving caring people, and you never really know how great your support system is until you reach out for it.
i hope you can figure something out and get the bag you love back in your life. if i spot something, i will let you know.
is there no where you could move to AWAY from that awful place you are stuck in??? is there family/friends that would help you?
i'd want to leave pronto.
please keep us updated on how things are, and let us know how things all pan out. i am going to subscribe to this thread. i really feel for ya honey, but don't let this break you.
show the world you can walk through fire.