I was watching a "minimalist lifestyle" video on youtube and the girl got me thinking... (Not that I could ever subscribe to any type of "minimalist" lifestyle... )
But... also... I realized I have never shopped for MYSELF in the last 15 years.... ( I'll be 33 in June '19)
When I think about shopping I always think about my "fantasy self". Weather it's the bad a$$ professional when I was shopping for "interview/office outfits" when I was 20 something or weather I was shopping for cool "In the club" outfits or red/black sexy dresses for my man/boyfriend etc... I realized... I am almost 33 and I have NEVER shopped for an outfit for myself! It was always for my fantasy self! Or for somebody else's fantasy. Not mine... (That short red dress, you know...)
Am I the only one? Am I that stupid?! I am about to purchase my first home and my closet so far is full off clothes that reflect the fantasy of someone else! Weather it's someone at work, my family, my friends, my SO, or society all together...
I remember when everybody called me "boring"because I thought a pant suit and a white shirt was the ultimate chic.
I remember when everyone made fun of me because I was dressing like a "grandma" in black, white, beige and gray because I always thought of a "job interview" when I was shopping for clothes.
Has this ever happened to you?! Have you ever dressed to please anyone else and how?
Let me know, girls. I understand this is silly... However, If I suddenly decided to donate, to sell or to throw out all the clothes I have purchased for my "fantasy self", my real self would have to go naked.
But... also... I realized I have never shopped for MYSELF in the last 15 years.... ( I'll be 33 in June '19)
When I think about shopping I always think about my "fantasy self". Weather it's the bad a$$ professional when I was shopping for "interview/office outfits" when I was 20 something or weather I was shopping for cool "In the club" outfits or red/black sexy dresses for my man/boyfriend etc... I realized... I am almost 33 and I have NEVER shopped for an outfit for myself! It was always for my fantasy self! Or for somebody else's fantasy. Not mine... (That short red dress, you know...)
Am I the only one? Am I that stupid?! I am about to purchase my first home and my closet so far is full off clothes that reflect the fantasy of someone else! Weather it's someone at work, my family, my friends, my SO, or society all together...
I remember when everybody called me "boring"because I thought a pant suit and a white shirt was the ultimate chic.
I remember when everyone made fun of me because I was dressing like a "grandma" in black, white, beige and gray because I always thought of a "job interview" when I was shopping for clothes.
Has this ever happened to you?! Have you ever dressed to please anyone else and how?
Let me know, girls. I understand this is silly... However, If I suddenly decided to donate, to sell or to throw out all the clothes I have purchased for my "fantasy self", my real self would have to go naked.