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tlamdang08 said:
I thank you, everyone, from the bottom of my heart.
My DH has passed away last week suddenly during his sleep due to "the complication of Covid." We are still waiting for the autopsy result so the real cause of his death now isn't clear. According to his Medical record, he had a healthy clean record.
He had contracted to Covid via his employees who had their ThanksGiving together with three different families. They were the Covid's source, but we did not know until a week later...
Our family also got Covid but we had a very mild cough ( my youngest) a light headache (my second son and I) my daughter is shown no illness at all but also positive). Thank God we are recovering and have quarantine ourselves until tomorrow. We are passing the 10 days period since we had symptoms and our Dr just confirmed that we are all clear. My DH funeral date is set for next week.
I believed that His spirit is still around me. Everytime I call him or miss him he had his way to answered me. Many stories to shares but later.
I wish everyone to have a beautiful Christmas Eve.
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So sorry for your loss.
Sending you lots of love and hugs.
 
#4,541
tlamdang08 said:
I thank you, everyone, from the bottom of my heart.
My DH has passed away last week suddenly during his sleep due to "the complication of Covid." We are still waiting for the autopsy result so the real cause of his death now isn't clear. According to his Medical record, he had a healthy clean record.
He had contracted to Covid via his employees who had their ThanksGiving together with three different families. They were the Covid's source, but we did not know until a week later...
Our family also got Covid but we had a very mild cough ( my youngest) a light headache (my second son and I) my daughter is shown no illness at all but also positive). Thank God we are recovering and have quarantine ourselves until tomorrow. We are passing the 10 days period since we had symptoms and our Dr just confirmed that we are all clear. My DH funeral date is set for next week.
I believed that His spirit is still around me. Everytime I call him or miss him he had his way to answered me. Many stories to shares but later.
I wish everyone to have a beautiful Christmas Eve.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I really have no words but thank you for all the brightness you bring here to all of the rest of us. I will be thinking of you and your family.
 
#4,544
tlamdang08 said:
I thank you, everyone, from the bottom of my heart.
My DH has passed away last week suddenly during his sleep due to "the complication of Covid." We are still waiting for the autopsy result so the real cause of his death now isn't clear. According to his Medical record, he had a healthy clean record.
He had contracted to Covid via his employees who had their ThanksGiving together with three different families. They were the Covid's source, but we did not know until a week later...
Our family also got Covid but we had a very mild cough ( my youngest) a light headache (my second son and I) my daughter is shown no illness at all but also positive). Thank God we are recovering and have quarantine ourselves until tomorrow. We are passing the 10 days period since we had symptoms and our Dr just confirmed that we are all clear. My DH funeral date is set for next week.
I believed that His spirit is still around me. Everytime I call him or miss him he had his way to answered me. Many stories to shares but later.
I wish everyone to have a beautiful Christmas Eve.
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Truly sorry for your loss :heart:
 
#4,545
Dear everyone,
I am at the denying stage. My mental is against the fact that my Husband has gone forever.
I want to cry out loud but I can't.
I want to clean up the house but my kids keep everything nice and neat.
I want to iron his clothes but his clothes are done a few days ago.
I am sitting in my kitchen and usually, at this time my kitchen will have some sense of baked goods- now is empty. I am having a bottle of Ensure-the ernegy drink- which is my meal of a day, every day so far.
I am still wearing our wedding ring and looking at his wedding ring in my thump. Again no tear but I can hear my heart shattered into many pieces.
I am wearing the Juste Un Clou that was the last set of jewelry that he bought for me a week before he died. He has never bought any set for me before. Normally I would have a ring, then later earing, then if I was insisted that I needed a whole set then he would come in pick up a bracelet or bangle to match the set. So he did the set at this time for me just like he knew he would not be able to buy later.
The autopsy result came in He was somehow suffocated and Covid got him at that time. So there were no heart problems no worry that my kids would get it but my mind still has a big question mark why he got suffocated? Maybe God is the only one to know the real answer.
I have lost a few lbs finally. My hair is getting more grey than ever.
Yesterday I brought his clothes to the funeral home and forgot to bring him a Rosary. I drove 2hour and 30 mins back and forth and my mind was empty, my youngest was a quiet sleeper for once. I got the road all to myself.
Today is cloudy...I decided to keep his ring as a necklace pendant and to keep him close to my heart. But his rings plus mine are getting heavy....

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