That is such a lovely thing to do!
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Oh, it helped me too - closet space is a hot commodity.
I always thought I had a 12 ft long closet, but I just measured and it’s only 9’. (I also have a small coat closet and closets in the two additional bedrooms, that are used for other storage needs.) Sweaters reside in a cabinet bought for that purpose. Still, 9’ is not a lot of space for bags, clothing and shoes. Today, I removed a number of tunics I no longer like and a number of jeans that no longer like me....this isn’t as easy as I thought it would be at this point in my life.
What an incredible thing to do; you're awesome for thinking of it.
No doubt she was over the moon! Both of those are really great bags! I think I'd faint if I were ever gifted them.
In Feb, I gave a small crossbody pouch to a grocery store cashier who admired it. She was giddy with joy and it really made my day seeing her face light up under her mask. Those are really special moments, and the memory of surprising someone like that will be with us forever.
I recently stumbled upon a thread on the Rebecca Minkoff sub-forums where members were re-homing their bags to anyone who wanted them, free of charge.
Another fabulous member on here (@JenJBS) donated some bags to victims of domestic violence early this year.
These are only the small stories of sharing and bag surprises that we hear about, can you imagine how much happens that we don't even know about? There's so much generosity on tpf, it's inspirational.
It sounds like you're doing it just right! Any progress is still progress!
I'm struggling with a couple of pieces of clothing that I still like but am not sure that I should be keeping. I don't know if I'm bored with them and need a break for the time being, or if this is the point where I should just remove them entirely. It's the first time I've struggled to release clothes as normally that is the easiest category for me to pare down.
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What an incredible thing to do; you're awesome for thinking of it.
No doubt she was over the moon! Both of those are really great bags! I think I'd faint if I were ever gifted them.
In Feb, I gave a small crossbody pouch to a grocery store cashier who admired it. She was giddy with joy and it really made my day seeing her face light up under her mask. Those are really special moments, and the memory of surprising someone like that will be with us forever.
I recently stumbled upon a thread on the Rebecca Minkoff sub-forums where members were re-homing their bags to anyone who wanted them, free of charge.
Another fabulous member on here (@JenJBS) donated some bags to victims of domestic violence early this year.
These are only the small stories of sharing and bag surprises that we hear about, can you imagine how much happens that we don't even know about? There's so much generosity on tpf, it's inspirational.
It sounds like you're doing it just right! Any progress is still progress!
I'm struggling with a couple of pieces of clothing that I still like but am not sure that I should be keeping. I don't know if I'm bored with them and need a break for the time being, or if this is the point where I should just remove them entirely. It's the first time I've struggled to release clothes as normally that is the easiest category for me to pare down.
You are inspirational, dear friend.
No, you are!You are inspirational, dear friend.
No, but really, you are!
I've got 3 bags in mind to release in the coming months, and I'm taking a leaf out of your book and giving them to the DV shelter. Editing this way makes the journey so much richer!
No, you are!
I've got 3 bags in mind to release in the coming months, and I'm taking a leaf out of your book and giving them to the DV shelter. Editing this way makes the journey so much richer!
To friends who inspire each other!
Agreed. Much easier.
I don't deserve such high praise, but I really appreciate your kindness. Thank you for that.What an incredible thing to do; you're awesome for thinking of it.
No doubt she was over the moon! Both of those are really great bags! I think I'd faint if I were ever gifted them.
In Feb, I gave a small crossbody pouch to a grocery store cashier who admired it. She was giddy with joy and it really made my day seeing her face light up under her mask. Those are really special moments, and the memory of surprising someone like that will be with us forever.
I recently stumbled upon a thread on the Rebecca Minkoff sub-forums where members were re-homing their bags to anyone who wanted them, free of charge.
Another fabulous member on here (@JenJBS) donated some bags to victims of domestic violence early this year.
These are only the small stories of sharing and bag surprises that we hear about, can you imagine how much happens that we don't even know about? There's so much generosity on tpf, it's inspirational.
It sounds like you're doing it just right! Any progress is still progress!
I'm struggling with a couple of pieces of clothing that I still like but am not sure that I should be keeping. I don't know if I'm bored with them and need a break for the time being, or if this is the point where I should just remove them entirely. It's the first time I've struggled to release clothes as normally that is the easiest category for me to pare down.
It is a lovely feeling to see someone experience unexpected joy; I know I'm lucky to have shared in it. And yes, JenJBS is a great one, I agree!
I'm struggling with clothing too. I lost some weight about a year or so ago, but didn't go anywhere almost all last year. Since we've started going out again, I've wanted to wear clothing that is more form fitting, and am getting frustrated with clothes I loved before. I don't want to get rid of things too quickly because my body could change again.What an incredible thing to do; you're awesome for thinking of it.
No doubt she was over the moon! Both of those are really great bags! I think I'd faint if I were ever gifted them.
In Feb, I gave a small crossbody pouch to a grocery store cashier who admired it. She was giddy with joy and it really made my day seeing her face light up under her mask. Those are really special moments, and the memory of surprising someone like that will be with us forever.
I recently stumbled upon a thread on the Rebecca Minkoff sub-forums where members were re-homing their bags to anyone who wanted them, free of charge.
Another fabulous member on here (@JenJBS) donated some bags to victims of domestic violence early this year.
These are only the small stories of sharing and bag surprises that we hear about, can you imagine how much happens that we don't even know about? There's so much generosity on tpf, it's inspirational.
It sounds like you're doing it just right! Any progress is still progress!
I'm struggling with a couple of pieces of clothing that I still like but am not sure that I should be keeping. I don't know if I'm bored with them and need a break for the time being, or if this is the point where I should just remove them entirely. It's the first time I've struggled to release clothes as normally that is the easiest category for me to pare down.
They're the best kind! Cheers!To friends who inspire each other!
Ooh
...maybe this is why I'm struggling as well. My weight has changed, so perhaps that's what's confusing me with regards to letting clothing go.However, your situation is different. You lost this weight a full year ago! You're already maintaining the loss so there's no need to worry about regaining any weight. Your body has settled.
If tailoring clothing to your new size isn't an option, would you consider a "closet for departing clothes" until you're entirely sure you want to let them go? It's what I've decided to do with the clothes I'm struggling with right now.
Despite the many books I’ve read on minimizing, and there have been plenty, this small book has, without a doubt, been the most effective. While I do not aspire to reach the level of the young author, it has has been life-changing for me. At 71, I have spent decades binging and purging with possessions, including bags, clothing, books, jewelry, art. The author has achieved a level that I think is much easier for the young, but this book has still gotten me to a level I’ve not achieved previously.
(I particularly like the lists at the back of the book for times when I need to remind myself of my goals.)
(I particularly like the lists at the back of the book for times when I need to remind myself of my goals.)
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Wow I had this on my iPad “want to read” list (along with a dozen other stuff-related titles). Thanks for the recommendation, have just started on it!
I don't deserve such high praise, but I really appreciate your kindness. Thank you for that.
And yes, JenJBS is a great one, I agree!
Awww!
Thank you, Joule! Very sweet of you!
I just finished the book. The list of tips are super helpful! I found these resonated with me the most:
10. Minimize anything you have in multiple... you can still cut with fewer scissors. You can still write with fewer pens.
17. Organizing is not minimizing
22. Discard the things you have already forgotten about
23. Don't get creative when you're trying to discard things
24. Let go of the idea of getting your money's worth
similarly 30. Don't get hung up on the prices you initially paid
33. Discard any possession you can't discuss with passion
34. If you lost it, would you buy it again?
similarly 43. What if you started from scratch?
Favorite one is 51. If it's not a "hell, yes!" it's a "no."
I'm looking forward to finishing this after the weekend and definitely agree with the tips you pointed out.
Especially #43. I once had to start almost completely from scratch with my jewelry - it was ultimately one of the best self-awareness learning experiences of my life. Since The Theft I have rehomed nearly every piece that remained that was not a gift from my husband or a family heirloom, and have rehomed very few pieces acquired afterwards.