I see nothing wrong with exchanging/selling for a new one. Peoples tastes can change over time. I would let them know this is what you plan to do. It will still be special as it is still from them if not indirectly.
what do you ladies think? keep it as it is or change the bracelet?
What if I can't change the crown? So far, it seems like no one thinks it would be a big deal, but it worries me. Buying an extra cartier bracelet wouldn't be cheap, so I want to make sure I'm not making another mistake....
And if you go with this option, maybe you can tell your in-laws that you're doing it before it's done, just as heads-up. Changing a bracelet is nothing like changing a watch, specially since you're keeping the 2 tone
here it is....