I have a question I hope you ladies can answer for me. I have always like RL's style for it's casual flair which suits my lifestyle, especially as I have gotten older. I have started examining the bags again & I find myself drawn to the Ricky. My question is about the "wings". I've see the bags on the RL website calling the bag the Ricky but some show wings while some do not. Are the bags with the wings the same bag as the ones pictured without them or are they a variation? Can the wings be inverted so they don't stick out? I seem to prefer the look of the bag without the wings. Can someone give me an explanation & advice on size & structure. I have not seen these bags IRL but since I prefer large structured bags, I think the medium would be the smallest size that would work for me. I may need to make a trip to the RL boutique to handle them personally to get a feel for them.