While this makes for a good story, Barbara really needs to have a seat and direct her anger to the appropriate person, which is Vernon - not Oprah.
#1 he cheated in you with a prostitute called "One Tooth".
#2 you signed papers on a new palatial home WITHOUT reading them. Had you read it, you would have known from jump that the deed wasn't in your name and perhaps you AND Vernon could have negotiated better terms.
#3 you married Vernon - not Oprah. If you didn't like how Oprah was treating you, tell Vernon, who should have stepped in and addressed it with her. But he didn't, probably blinded by the money/financial support she provided.
This article definitely comes across to me as an ex-wife who is misdirecting her hurt feelings towards to the wrong person. I don't care personally how much of a bish Oprah may or may not be - that's her money to spend how she chooses. If one of my parents got remarried ( and I'm filthy rich) I'd interrogate that person too because I'd want to make sure they were with my parent for the right reason - and not to simply get close to me/my money/my lifestyle. As big whoop, Steadman and Oprah have a relationship of convenience...I'm sure there a lot of marriages functioning that way (ex. staying together for the kids, the image, money, etc.)
Oprah owes his lady nothing IMO.