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I think oprah should do what wendy recommend today, draft an ironclad agreement and let barbara have the house and then she has to do all the maintenance and taxation etc cetera on it. Oprah is worth billions she can easily give that lady that house and not miss a thing. Give it to her, and wash your hands of it.
 
Not saying you're not entitled to your opinion or suggesting less than earnest in your feelings but whenever I hear/read someone speak like this I always wonder a little bit what would that same person say if she were a man. I've learned the hard way many times over that when women are assertive/confident they are labeled as arrogant; when men are assertive/confident they are labeled as a good business man. Often a subject of business-y women conferences and it's very true.

I've been in meetings where I've purposely said the exact same thing a man has said...exact...verbatim...same tone, same context, same overly-confident posture and received "guidance" that I come across brash or full of myself or something to that effect. I once pointed out to one of my male bosses who gave me said "guidance" that I said the same thing our big boss (white male) said who he agreed with...why exactly was it different coming from me (black female)...he had no words. Since then I've learned how to say the same things without being perceived as such but it's really really hard and frustrating to have to do...it has to be turned on/off.

In any event, I don't know Oprah so I couldn't comment...this woman's story sounds a bit fraud though and she's looking for cash. Why couldn't her lawyers negotiate a better settlement for her if her husband cheated? Why didn't her lawyers say in exchange for signing a confidentiality agreement, here's what we want for our client? Her lawyers gave up that easy...on a target like Oprah. The entire beef industry was ready to take all that Oprah had and this woman's lawyers just gave up. Sure! Suspect written all over it...

Wouldn't matter if she were a male.... I'd still dislike her....here's why. Oprah had a talk show for what 25 years????? I refused to watch it...her guests never got to talk! She would ask some questions and do the majority of talking!!!! Nobody tuning in to hear you talk freak.....be quiet and let your guests speak.... she never did. Too full of herself. Secondly she says ignorant statements such as "prejudice won't end until all the old white people die." She can kma!
 
Wouldn't matter if she were a male.... I'd still dislike her....here's why. Oprah had a talk show for what 25 years????? I refused to watch it...her guests never got to talk! She would ask some questions and do the majority of talking!!!! Nobody tuning in to hear you talk freak.....be quiet and let your guests speak.... she never did. Too full of herself. Secondly she says ignorant statements such as "prejudice won't end until all the old white people die." She can kma!
The bolded is kinda true (from my experience)...but you know our experiences in life shape how we feel about statements like those..mine, yours and Oprah's obviously being different..so I could see how other people may find it off-putting. In any event, kinda odd that you say you refused to watch her show but dislike her yet know the questions she's asked her guests. I've never really watched her show that much but from what I saw she seemed to tailor her show to the guest that was on the show....dunno...again...different viewpoints.

Again...giving up a legal battle against Oprah so easy sound suspect...
 
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I think oprah should do what wendy recommend today, draft an ironclad agreement and let barbara have the house and then she has to do all the maintenance and taxation etc cetera on it. Oprah is worth billions she can easily give that lady that house and not miss a thing. Give it to her, and wash your hands of it.
Completely agree! O will make herself look better too.
 
Wouldn't matter if she were a male.... I'd still dislike her....here's why. Oprah had a talk show for what 25 years????? I refused to watch it...her guests never got to talk! She would ask some questions and do the majority of talking!!!! Nobody tuning in to hear you talk freak.....be quiet and let your guests speak.... she never did. Too full of herself. Secondly she says ignorant statements such as "prejudice won't end until all the old white people die." She can kma!
So funny. I always said the same thing. If the topic interested her and was something she could relate to, she would only talk about herself and her own experiences. Otherwise, she was very bored and we could see that.
 
While this makes for a good story, Barbara really needs to have a seat and direct her anger to the appropriate person, which is Vernon - not Oprah.

#1 he cheated in you with a prostitute called "One Tooth".
#2 you signed papers on a new palatial home WITHOUT reading them. Had you read it, you would have known from jump that the deed wasn't in your name and perhaps you AND Vernon could have negotiated better terms.
#3 you married Vernon - not Oprah. If you didn't like how Oprah was treating you, tell Vernon, who should have stepped in and addressed it with her. But he didn't, probably blinded by the money/financial support she provided.

This article definitely comes across to me as an ex-wife who is misdirecting her hurt feelings towards to the wrong person. I don't care personally how much of a bish Oprah may or may not be - that's her money to spend how she chooses. If one of my parents got remarried ( and I'm filthy rich) I'd interrogate that person too because I'd want to make sure they were with my parent for the right reason - and not to simply get close to me/my money/my lifestyle. As big whoop, Steadman and Oprah have a relationship of convenience...I'm sure there a lot of marriages functioning that way (ex. staying together for the kids, the image, money, etc.)

Oprah owes his lady nothing IMO.
 
I think oprah should do what wendy recommend today, draft an ironclad agreement and let barbara have the house and then she has to do all the maintenance and taxation etc cetera on it. Oprah is worth billions she can easily give that lady that house and not miss a thing. Give it to her, and wash your hands of it.

Doesn't matter if Oprah is worth trillions. She is not obligated to care for this woman AND she was nice enough to offer her something else and she had the nerve to turn it down. Now you get nothing! Someone offers you help when they don't have to and you want to turn it down? Kick rocks!
 
Wouldn't matter if she were a male.... I'd still dislike her....here's why. Oprah had a talk show for what 25 years????? I refused to watch it...her guests never got to talk! She would ask some questions and do the majority of talking!!!! Nobody tuning in to hear you talk freak.....be quiet and let your guests speak.... she never did. Too full of herself. Secondly she says ignorant statements such as "prejudice won't end until all the old white people die." She can kma!

If you never watched her show, how would you know this :confused1:
 
While this makes for a good story, Barbara really needs to have a seat and direct her anger to the appropriate person, which is Vernon - not Oprah.

#1 he cheated in you with a prostitute called "One Tooth".
#2 you signed papers on a new palatial home WITHOUT reading them. Had you read it, you would have known from jump that the deed wasn't in your name and perhaps you AND Vernon could have negotiated better terms.
#3 you married Vernon - not Oprah. If you didn't like how Oprah was treating you, tell Vernon, who should have stepped in and addressed it with her. But he didn't, probably blinded by the money/financial support she provided.

This article definitely comes across to me as an ex-wife who is misdirecting her hurt feelings towards to the wrong person. I don't care personally how much of a bish Oprah may or may not be - that's her money to spend how she chooses. If one of my parents got remarried ( and I'm filthy rich) I'd interrogate that person too because I'd want to make sure they were with my parent for the right reason - and not to simply get close to me/my money/my lifestyle. As big whoop, Steadman and Oprah have a relationship of convenience...I'm sure there a lot of marriages functioning that way (ex. staying together for the kids, the image, money, etc.)

Oprah owes his lady nothing IMO.

Preach!
 
If you never watched her show, how would you know this :confused1:

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Doesn't matter if Oprah is worth trillions. She is not obligated to care for this woman AND she was nice enough to offer her something else and she had the nerve to turn it down. Now you get nothing! Someone offers you help when they don't have to and you want to turn it down? Kick rocks!


ITA!!! i hate it when people say that someone is worth billions and would never miss the money! it is their money to do with as they please! this woman wants big bucks! i know for a fact that Oprah does a lot for her family that never makes the big news.
 
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ITA!!! i hate it when people say that someone is worth billions and would never miss the money! it is their money to do with as they please! this woman wants big bucks! i know for a fact that Oprah does a lot for her family that never makes the big news.

A former co-worker of mine works for O Magazine. 2 months after working there she got a $10K Christmas bonus along with everyone else. Oprah is not cheap with her money.
 
A former co-worker of mine works for O Magazine. 2 months after working there she got a $10K Christmas bonus along with everyone else. Oprah is not cheap with her money.



yea that sounds like something she would do - she is not cheap or stingy with it.

now just imagine what those girls were getting that had been working with her for years!!!!
 
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