I recall reading that Ramesh's definition of luxury is that something was made with the best materials and craftsmanship available, and meant to be consumed slowly over time. Enjoy yours in good health!
I totally agree with that point. I started to build my luxury handbag collection in my early 30s. Before I had always bought and enjoyed bags and leather craftmanship but not luxury ones, I had other priorities.
At the beginning of my handbag journey, I felt rushed and i was a bit lost because i didnt stop to think which bag style i loved the most. It took years and a lot of fails to accept what truly works for me. I learnt that i am a top handle + strap or crossbody bag kind of person and that i disliked minis and prefer small/medium bags lol. I do not like chains with the only exception of the Chanel classic flaps because well...they are impractical but classic lol. I realised that I was drawn to no logo understated bags so my love for Celine,
Loewe, Hermes grew and i dedicated my Chanel addiction to those times when I wouldn't mind being judged for carrying a luxury bag (personal dates, birthdays, non business related, etc).
Now im getting closer to my 40s and a lot happened in my life in 2019. Change of job after 10 years, heartbreak and the most painful, the sudden loss of my dad to cancer. 2020 was a year for grieving for me and it will sound strange but i appreciated the fact i didnt have to make excuses to reject social events because people were staying home lol 2021 feels more like a transformation year because i feel more confident, I know what truly matters and I have less patience with "the bad" things or people around me. To give an example closer to our topic, I love Chanel but I will not tolerate the lack of quality in their leather and finishing of their items so whenever i see it, i reject it. A clear example is the famous caramel mini. Well....i saw the chain issue and i said to my SA, sorry, i aint buying! I see soooo many minis with problems of structure that makes me sad when fans keep buying such defective items.
This year I was ready for Moynat because i no longer needed to seek validation from others. I didnt need an Hermes bag (or a few) to feel successful because I already had them sitting in my shelf and they didnt make me feel any different! And you know what? I realised, I was trying to be someone im not. I realised every time i used my Loewe puzzle or Celine classic i felt joy and contentment and i used them more often than my H bags! So I sold my Hermes bags and only kept one, my Kelly28 retourne in Gris mouette lol and only the Universe knows if i will keep it or not, im giving her a chance haha
So yes, luxury should be consumed in moderation and we should reject the new ideas like "seasonal colours" or "trendy bags". Luxury should be FOREVER, TIMELESS, CLASSIC. Social media is a very powerful influence and we can easily lose the perspective of what it is real and what is not...
However, the only reason why I am rushing to get the old style Moynat bags that I love is because I do feel i arrived too late to the party so I better hurry up and grab my forever Moynat bags. The good thing is i already know what i like and will use and what i dont like or I like but wont use lol so I dont think i will regret my Moynat purchases.
Sorry for this long ramble lol