Thank you so much for taking time to reply, sharing your experience and your honest opinion

I appreciate that a lot!!
The size I am about is 25 and a new bag. So if is easier with 32 and you are struggling with 28 a 25 must be much more difficult

I am a very careful one as well..
May I ask, are you more a Birkin or Kelly Person..?
The thing is, I really love the look of a sellier kelly! And I am struggling which leather would be the best choice for me. Originally I decided for epsom and then I heard so much about the stiffness of it and that's its hard to open and close.. so I am brainstorming on leather options and there are not many..
I am totally a Birkin lover and don't have any kelly and want to add one, but I am so unsure with open and close thing.. and trying to find out which leather could be more easier.. And I know box ist not super soft as well, but I thought maybe here in terms of use it is, because its a natural leather and a stamped one like epsom is... But it seems like it doesn't matter which leather, its about the sellier shape which causes this struggles