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I am Gen X, definitely not a millennial; but I have worked at a relatively high level in luxury boutique fashion (shoe and handbag girl heaven) in extremely affluent NYC suburbs. If I have ever seen reference to Betty before, it was in passing as a pejorative. I have never heard it as a an official term in marketing or any other aspect of retail selling. In my experience, retailers work more to bring in new buyers than worry about discouraging bad ones. Which supports most of my thoughts for this thread. Nordstrom takes banning very seriously and does not enforce lightly.

Based on its use here, I would say that flippant use of the term Betty is an example of entitlement and self-centeredness to the nth degree. Ironically, the behavior that those who scurrilously use the term wish to prevent. I would definitely not place @Annie J or @A1aGypsy in that category. They used the term for informative and educational purposes.

ETA. I put wrong gen reference! Silly me!
Thank you, @3threebabies. I agree with you completely! I was tickled by @SomethingGoodCanWork’s neat response to the use of the term, and my post was meant humorously (if anyone gets my humour except me!) to support the idea, among others, that’s it’s unlikely that retailers are really terribly troubled by any type of customer behaviour that gets mentioned here anyway. It’s interesting to hear from someone who has worked in the business that retailers are more interested in expanding customer bases than discouraging bad customers; it’s what I thought must be the case.

The ‘Becky’ doesn’t really exist as a category and it’s unpleasant to negatively stereotype in this way. I wish I’d made that clearer in my ‘Becky’ post. Everyone’s an individual and there are many complex factors behind any behaviour, even those who act in apparently excessive ways. And a lot of the shopping patterns also disapproved of here don’t come anywhere near anything unreasonable anyway.
 
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I think it’s a shame people are being so scathing of each other at times here, because we all visit this forum because we share interests. It seems unnecessary. This is an important topic because it has environmental repercussions. But the business issues and the impact of one customer upon another seem straightforward to me and I think we’re seeing a false dichotomy between returners and non-returners which is causing feelings to run high.



I appreciate the quote above is your point of view, @ultravisitor. However I do feel this view is somewhat mistaken. I would rewrite it like this:

‘I choose to run an online retail business, and I have made a business decision to have a fairly liberal returns policy so that customers will feel confident to buy in the first place, thus enabling my business to thrive and continue to offer purchasing opportunities to both those who return and those who never or rarely do. If I only sold to those who don’t return, or very rarely return, my customer base would shrink dramatically and I would probably have to reduce the range of products I make available to any customers and may even go out of business. Some customers return a lot more than they buy. Monitoring customers like that is my job as a fair part of what makes my business viable. Customers who tell me that they would like to receive a polite warning that they are returning more than my business can sustain and may be banned are saying “I am as entitled as any other customer to take up your commercial offer to sell to me online and for me to make returns according to your policy when the items I ordered are unsuitable. I am not myself an online retailer, so I do not know exactly at what level any returns I make under your policy will start to make your business unsustainable, so I will be grateful if you would let me know if I am making too many returns for your purposes before you ban me outright. Otherwise, I will continue to purchase under your considered and legal terms and conditions including the returns policy, mindful of your business needs but not privy to them, and you will be respectful of me as a customer unless I fail to respond to your courteous warning, in which case you will be perfectly entitled to ban me as a nuisance to your business.”’



But it won’t make sense if that item can’t be found in a store, or if you can’t get to a store. It may be true that nobody is ‘entitled’ to have any particular item but they are perfectly entitled to accept a retailer’s offer to buy it online and return it if it’s unsuitable.

If businesses were not happy to accommodate returns they would not offer it. Nobody forces a retailer to sell online. They do it because it’s profitable and offering easy returns actually makes it more profitable, and it keeps the online offer available to all customers. They decide on the right balance to keep the business going and will no doubt alter policies when necessary. You would be unlikely to see prices drop much if at all if returns were banned or reduced much more than they already are, because the business would probably struggle to make a profit anyway.

@ultravisitor, my intention is not to single you out but I thought some of your points were representative of the some of the main arguments people have been making.

There has been rather a lot of talk about ‘entitlement’, mostly on the side of “People these days think they should be able to have everything they want,” or “It was your choice to live in the remote countryside. Just because you live far from a store it doesn’t entitle you to shop at any particular online store.” Well, it doesn’t disentitle you, either. It’s probably actually a legal matter whether anyone is NOT entitled to shop at a particular store; all variables taken into consideration, we are all as entitled as each other. The person who lives far from a store is no less entitled to shop at any particular online store than any other customer. They are also perfectly entitled, as we all are, to return goods in accordance with the return policy, regardless of how little anyone else returns, and retailers are equally entitled within the terms of their policy to refuse to do further business with a customer who does not abide by the contract. (Disclaimer: local laws may apply which affect the legal entitlements).

Are we not confusing two different uses of the word ‘entitlement’? There’s entitlement under law and in contract, and there’s entitlement as in ‘a sense of entitlement’, which is connected with excessive consumption. They are not the same thing but the confusion seems to be fuelling a lot of unnecessary argument and disrespect to each other.

I think actually we may all be on the same side because we all like to be able to shop online. This argument over returns is a false one. Those who object if they eventually get banned, following polite warning for a truly unreasonable rate of returns, and think they should be allowed to carry on regardless are being extreme one way - because it’s a business matter, not a moral one - and those who think you should never order anything online unless you are certain you will keep it are extreme the other way. If either point of view were put into action as policy, online business would collapse anyway. The middle ground is just a matter for the business to decide upon in a pragmatic way.

Morality comes into it only when we start to consider environmental cost.

Dude! Some chick in this thread admitted she bought things JUST TO LOOK AT THEM. With NO intention of ever buying it. She is using online shopping as window shopping. The environmental impact alone for this sickness is enough to shut this crap down. And it is a sickness. No one needs to shop at Nordstrom, it doesn’t need to framed as a basic human right here.
 
Dude! Some chick in this thread admitted she bought things JUST TO LOOK AT THEM. With NO intention of ever buying it. She is using online shopping as window shopping. The environmental impact alone for this sickness is enough to shut this crap down. And it is a sickness. No one needs to shop at Nordstrom, it doesn’t need to framed as a basic human right here.
All those points are covered in my posts and it is not being framed as a basic human right but as a conditional consumer right.

Also with regard to the particular lady who was willing to own up and post that, she said she now saw that it wasn’t a good thing to do, which was very open of her. She had no objection that I can see to Nordstrom taking action to prevent her making further purchases, and I expect Nordstrom is comfortable with the outcome.

Most of the vilification that has appeared here is based upon people feeling their own shopping experience, not the environment, is being adversely affected by some other people’s shopping habits.
For my thoughts and other people’s on environmental impacts, you could read the posts if inclined.
 
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I feel like I am in a Twilight Zone episode.
LOL
this thread does go on and one
I know, you’re right. I shouldn’t have given in to the impulse to respond to the Becky thing. Mea culpa for prolonging the agony and apologies for any unintended inadvertent endorsement of stereotypes I wasn’t familiar with in my attempt to debunk the concerns and sorry if I dragged @SomethingGoodCanWork’s subtler post into it. ;)
 
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I know, you’re right. I shouldn’t have given in to the impulse to respond to the Becky thing. Mea culpa for prolonging the agony and apologies for any unintended inadvertent endorsement of stereotypes I wasn’t familiar with in my attempt to debunk the concerns and sorry if I dragged @SomethingGoodCanWork’s subtler post into it. ;)
Absolutely no need for apologies, Annie :smile:
 
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I have seen an article appear in my FB feed twice now about this phenomenon. States that returns are costing US retailers 369 billion. Yes that number was stuck in my head. This does have massive unnecessary environmental impact. Its a subscribed link but i have used my 30 day free trial already
https://www.businessoffashion.com/a...y0g8kJMtyNIl5XnOP0B-e38oZ9cURa2aPMlhKbs3p17oE
I expect that’s an interesting read. We’ve seen the subject arise often in the last five years or so in the mainstream media in Europe and the UK. I don’t worry about the big businesses because they can alter their strategies as they need to to survive, as any business has to, but it does mean that smaller businesses find it harder and harder to compete, and several traditional physical stores have disappeared or are struggling. The real worry though, of course, is the the environmental one, which is huge, and down to our massive overconsumption generally, returns being one part of that.
 
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This thread made me really upset about all those accusations towards the people with high return rates, because I am one of them but for a reason that hasn’t been mentioned - the decline in quality of goods that Nordstrom sells. I’ve only been living in the US for 2 years, so my shopping history is short. Here is what I bought and had to return because of quality issues :

$150 Vince silk top in yellow color that actually colored the inside of my black blazer yellow
$ 500 Rebecca Taylor dress in which the seams came apart after 1 wear
$120 La Mer foundation that clogged my pores and looked worse than any drugstore foundation ever did
2 of $100 Madewell sweaters that started pilling after 1 year
$300 Vince Coat that shed wool all over my white blazer I wore underneath
$60 Wolford tights that came with a whole in them
$300 Vince sandals that wounded my feet after 1 wear because the seams were too thick and I couldn’t feel that when trying them on
$200 J Crew Coat that came in size 10 instead of the size 4 that I ordered
$250 Eric Javitz hat that had curved seams on a ribbon (I would’ve kept the hat if the ribbon could be removed)
$60 Chanel foundation that the “Chanel artist” “matched” me with that turned out to be 3 shades too dark.

Also, there was a Vince Coat I really liked and bought it full price for $ 750. Next day I was In Nordstrom Rack, and there was the same Coat in my size for $299. Was I supposed to not return the more expensive one because of “environment” issues or because it “hurts Nordstrom’s business”? I am sorry, I earn my money working hard and I am entitled (!) to spend it for something I am 100% satisfied with.

Of course, it is Nordstrom’s right to ban me from even entering their store, it is a private business after all. But is it fair? No. They spend enormous money sending free stuff to stupid rich bloggers who promote that stuff. Then we, normal people with regular paychecks, go and spend our money buying that stuff. It turns out to be not as expected - and we are supposed to not be able to return that? Especially after every Nordstrom employer says, if your size in not in stock:“oh, let’s order it online and if it doesn’t fit - just return it for free!” They set this rules, and they are banning people for following them?

I know I could shop elsewhere (and probably would after they ban me), but Nordstrom still carries a lot of stuff that I like, such as Barefoot Dreams, Rag and Bone, Hanky Panky, etc. It just takes a lot of time and a lot of returns before you find brands that you trust, and even then, there has been a huge decline in quality in brands like J Crew, Madewell and Vince, which still make returns possible until retailers also do something about this and address their suppliers instead of their customers.
 
This thread made me really upset about all those accusations towards the people with high return rates, because I am one of them but for a reason that hasn’t been mentioned - the decline in quality of goods that Nordstrom sells. I’ve only been living in the US for 2 years, so my shopping history is short. Here is what I bought and had to return because of quality issues :

$150 Vince silk top in yellow color that actually colored the inside of my black blazer yellow
$ 500 Rebecca Taylor dress in which the seams came apart after 1 wear
$120 La Mer foundation that clogged my pores and looked worse than any drugstore foundation ever did
2 of $100 Madewell sweaters that started pilling after 1 year
$300 Vince Coat that shed wool all over my white blazer I wore underneath
$60 Wolford tights that came with a whole in them
$300 Vince sandals that wounded my feet after 1 wear because the seams were too thick and I couldn’t feel that when trying them on
$200 J Crew Coat that came in size 10 instead of the size 4 that I ordered
$250 Eric Javitz hat that had curved seams on a ribbon (I would’ve kept the hat if the ribbon could be removed)
$60 Chanel foundation that the “Chanel artist” “matched” me with that turned out to be 3 shades too dark.

Also, there was a Vince Coat I really liked and bought it full price for $ 750. Next day I was In Nordstrom Rack, and there was the same Coat in my size for $299. Was I supposed to not return the more expensive one because of “environment” issues or because it “hurts Nordstrom’s business”? I am sorry, I earn my money working hard and I am entitled (!) to spend it for something I am 100% satisfied with.

Of course, it is Nordstrom’s right to ban me from even entering their store, it is a private business after all. But is it fair? No. They spend enormous money sending free stuff to stupid rich bloggers who promote that stuff. Then we, normal people with regular paychecks, go and spend our money buying that stuff. It turns out to be not as expected - and we are supposed to not be able to return that? Especially after every Nordstrom employer says, if your size in not in stock:“oh, let’s order it online and if it doesn’t fit - just return it for free!” They set this rules, and they are banning people for following them?

I know I could shop elsewhere (and probably would after they ban me), but Nordstrom still carries a lot of stuff that I like, such as Barefoot Dreams, Rag and Bone, Hanky Panky, etc. It just takes a lot of time and a lot of returns before you find brands that you trust, and even then, there has been a huge decline in quality in brands like J Crew, Madewell and Vince, which still make returns possible until retailers also do something about this and address their suppliers instead of their customers.
I am sorry that you were offended. I don’t believe that anyone, even those who were nasty, expected or justified Nordstrom banning those who return for quality issues. In fact, several people mentioned Nordstrom tightening return policies the last several years. Though I can not speak for certain, I doubt Nordstrom would ban for damaged returns. If they were to ban for such, that could be one of the situations in which they would reconsider. Nordstrom is revered in retail for their customer service policies that treat customers with respect (but do not see customers as infallible). Standing behind their product for defects is part of that reknowned customer service. They have modified defect policy to say something like at our discretion. You were allowed to return your defects. I think that means a lot. I do know from personal experience that Nordstrom (at least in my local store) no longer considers shoe defects to be a customer service issue. They provide no recourse for valid defects and no longer even offer a repair option much less returns for brand new luxury items. I believe I heard the same regarding handbags but have heard nothing similar for apparel items like those you mention.

The only major companies I have heard that ban people for returning for any reason was Amazon and Target/Walmart. The latter I believe only look at shorter windows, and I think the ban may just be for a short time.

Edited because reply sent while I was editing original post.
 
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This thread made me really upset about all those accusations towards the people with high return rates, because I am one of them but for a reason that hasn’t been mentioned - the decline in quality of goods that Nordstrom sells. I’ve only been living in the US for 2 years, so my shopping history is short. Here is what I bought and had to return because of quality issues :

$150 Vince silk top in yellow color that actually colored the inside of my black blazer yellow
$ 500 Rebecca Taylor dress in which the seams came apart after 1 wear
$120 La Mer foundation that clogged my pores and looked worse than any drugstore foundation ever did
2 of $100 Madewell sweaters that started pilling after 1 year
$300 Vince Coat that shed wool all over my white blazer I wore underneath
$60 Wolford tights that came with a whole in them
$300 Vince sandals that wounded my feet after 1 wear because the seams were too thick and I couldn’t feel that when trying them on
$200 J Crew Coat that came in size 10 instead of the size 4 that I ordered
$250 Eric Javitz hat that had curved seams on a ribbon (I would’ve kept the hat if the ribbon could be removed)
$60 Chanel foundation that the “Chanel artist” “matched” me with that turned out to be 3 shades too dark.

Also, there was a Vince Coat I really liked and bought it full price for $ 750. Next day I was In Nordstrom Rack, and there was the same Coat in my size for $299. Was I supposed to not return the more expensive one because of “environment” issues or because it “hurts Nordstrom’s business”? I am sorry, I earn my money working hard and I am entitled (!) to spend it for something I am 100% satisfied with.

Of course, it is Nordstrom’s right to ban me from even entering their store, it is a private business after all. But is it fair? No. They spend enormous money sending free stuff to stupid rich bloggers who promote that stuff. Then we, normal people with regular paychecks, go and spend our money buying that stuff. It turns out to be not as expected - and we are supposed to not be able to return that? Especially after every Nordstrom employer says, if your size in not in stock:“oh, let’s order it online and if it doesn’t fit - just return it for free!” They set this rules, and they are banning people for following them?

I know I could shop elsewhere (and probably would after they ban me), but Nordstrom still carries a lot of stuff that I like, such as Barefoot Dreams, Rag and Bone, Hanky Panky, etc. It just takes a lot of time and a lot of returns before you find brands that you trust, and even then, there has been a huge decline in quality in brands like J Crew, Madewell and Vince, which still make returns possible until retailers also do something about this and address their suppliers instead of their customers.


I’d completely ignore the sweeping generalisations some people make here. Reasonable people know there’s no call to be so scathing.

There are many valid reasons for returns, even for 100% returns. Your post started me thinking, and I was about to post on the differences in UK/US approaches, because not all the things you listed would be accepted for return in the UK. I might put it below later. Nordstrom offered the policy. What I don’t understand is why they don’t just refuse returns when they consider the reasons invalid. It would probably never get to the point of a ban with most people, if they did that. If it’s the case that you returned everything you ever bought from them, that might be a red flag for them, but if the returns were all for reasons of damage/faultiness, and if they were properly registering the valid reasons for the returns (and we’re all also allowed a few “It just didn’t suit me”, as long as it’s returned according to the policy offered and in new condition), it shouldn’t come to this even if it was every single item. Seems lazy of them, if they’ve just banned on the rate without considering the reasons, and an odd way to go about maintaining their reputation for customer service: they’d rather ban a perfectly reasonable and potentially good future customer than deal with the hassle of assessing return reasons as they come in. I haven’t shopped at Nordstrom often so this is not from direct experience, but it makes Nordstrom sound very unattractive.

If I were you I’d write detailing the reasons for your returns and point out that this is basically not a very nice way to treat a previously loyal customer.
 
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This thread made me really upset about all those accusations towards the people with high return rates, because I am one of them but for a reason that hasn’t been mentioned - the decline in quality of goods that Nordstrom sells. I’ve only been living in the US for 2 years, so my shopping history is short. Here is what I bought and had to return because of quality issues :

$150 Vince silk top in yellow color that actually colored the inside of my black blazer yellow
$ 500 Rebecca Taylor dress in which the seams came apart after 1 wear
$120 La Mer foundation that clogged my pores and looked worse than any drugstore foundation ever did
2 of $100 Madewell sweaters that started pilling after 1 year
$300 Vince Coat that shed wool all over my white blazer I wore underneath
$60 Wolford tights that came with a whole in them
$300 Vince sandals that wounded my feet after 1 wear because the seams were too thick and I couldn’t feel that when trying them on
$200 J Crew Coat that came in size 10 instead of the size 4 that I ordered
$250 Eric Javitz hat that had curved seams on a ribbon (I would’ve kept the hat if the ribbon could be removed)
$60 Chanel foundation that the “Chanel artist” “matched” me with that turned out to be 3 shades too dark.

Also, there was a Vince Coat I really liked and bought it full price for $ 750. Next day I was In Nordstrom Rack, and there was the same Coat in my size for $299. Was I supposed to not return the more expensive one because of “environment” issues or because it “hurts Nordstrom’s business”? I am sorry, I earn my money working hard and I am entitled (!) to spend it for something I am 100% satisfied with.

Of course, it is Nordstrom’s right to ban me from even entering their store, it is a private business after all. But is it fair? No. They spend enormous money sending free stuff to stupid rich bloggers who promote that stuff. Then we, normal people with regular paychecks, go and spend our money buying that stuff. It turns out to be not as expected - and we are supposed to not be able to return that? Especially after every Nordstrom employer says, if your size in not in stock:“oh, let’s order it online and if it doesn’t fit - just return it for free!” They set this rules, and they are banning people for following them?

I know I could shop elsewhere (and probably would after they ban me), but Nordstrom still carries a lot of stuff that I like, such as Barefoot Dreams, Rag and Bone, Hanky Panky, etc. It just takes a lot of time and a lot of returns before you find brands that you trust, and even then, there has been a huge decline in quality in brands like J Crew, Madewell and Vince, which still make returns possible until retailers also do something about this and address their suppliers instead of their customers.
seems like you had some very legit returns and some that other retailers might not have accepted. Even Zappos who has wonderful CS won't take back shoes that have been worn.
 
. Standing behind their product for defects is part of that reknowned customer service. They have modified defect policy to say something like at our discretion. You were allowed to return your defects. I think that means a lot. I do know from personal experience that Nordstrom (at least in my local store) no longer considers shoe defects to be a customer service issue. They provide no recourse for valid defects and no longer even offer a repair option much less returns for brand new luxury items. I believe I heard the same regarding handbags but have heard nothing similar for apparel items like those you mention.

Is that actually legal, then, in the States? It seems such an odd thing for a retailer to be allowed to do. Remind me never to buy shoes from Nordstrom! The buyer would be legally entitled to full refund for anything defective in the UK. Before 2015, this legal protection lasted for 6 months after purchase. Now it lasts for the reasonably expected life of the product in both EU and UK. There might be some other considerations such as wear and tear, repair options and so on, but the basic protection is there. The protection is even stronger if you’re buying online, you are always entitled to refund for any reason at all within a timeframe, subject to the goods being returned in the same condition as sold (condition not relevant with defective or not fit for purpose goods).

So as more experiences get posted, I’m wondering if some differences of opinion here are based on really different perceptions in different countries of what it is valid to return. Your post earlier in the thread, where you mentioned the woman who returned shoes whose soles she had slashed to be anti-slip. Did she just try to return, or did she actually get her refunds? Would a US retailer actually take those back just because they have a liberal return policy? In the UK they would always have been immediately refused if they were not in the condition they were sold in, unless they had some actual fault that she didn’t discover till after slashing them, meaning a true defect rather than something that just turned out to be unsuited to the buyer.

A lot of cosmetics would be final sale in the UK, unless they are very clearly still sealed and untouched, and even then often they’re not returnable. I got the impression somewhere that things can be tried and returned in the US, if you don’t like them? Unlikely to happen here, unless genuinely faulty/dangerous or as a goodwill gesture. I think you’d be well within your rights to return a foundation which had been supposedly blended to match but turned out completely wrong, it’s not what you were sold. A top whose colour transferred, that’s faulty beyond a doubt. I don’t think I’d be able to get any UK store to accept back a sweater that had pilled after as long as a year, or a coat that shed on other clothes after wearing, unless unusually excessive. I’m not saying that @againstandforward who returned those shouldn’t have, just that it’s different here, and if Nordstrom said they would take such returns, then they should. I expect there are conditions in the T&Cs about their right to ban you, but if most of the returns were perfectly valid, that shouldn’t be a reason, and they could always refuse to accept things back if the reasons were not valid?

So I’m genuinely wondering, are we all talking about the same thing when we talk about a liberal return policy? It might explain some differences of opinion. I was interested because I’m occasionally in the US and also have shopped at Nordstrom online from here, assuming the policy to be similar to the UK’s. It sounds a little to me now as if they have operated a madly liberal return policy far beyond legal requirements (which seem to be laxer, however, than in EU and UK?). During this time they also often let customers be the ones who suffer from it by sending out damaged returns or shop-soiled goods as new to other customers, if what people say on this forum is true. It does sound very much as if Nordstrom has been encouraging this extraordinarily easy returns culture for its own reasons, so in the interests of goodwill alone it would be decent of them to tread lightly in their approach to a customer returning a lot. Now they’ve started to calculate that it’s no longer beneficial to them, those who got used to the old policy are being caught up in a change of culture. So it would be nice if Nordstrom gave people the benefit of the doubt with a courteous nudge before banning. I get the impression they don’t always? I’m wondering if there could even be a case for holding some companies responsible for encouraging an addiction, like a tobacco company? I wonder if we’ll ever see a law suit?

Of course there are outliers like the kids who habitually buy, Instagram and return, that may be a thorough nuisance. But (gasp) even they’re human too and are getting influenced in their immaturity by powerful external forces. My response to the ‘Becky’ stereotype used by a poster on page was intended to try to debunk it a bit (intended to be done humorously but maybe my British humour doesn’t translate). But meantime other basically reasonable people who may have returned a lot, having been given active encouragement by Nordstrom because ultimately the policy worked (for a time) to Nordstrom’s advantage, are being made to feel like criminals for taking Nordstrom up on its offer. Why can’t Nordstrom refuse to accept invalid returns, before they start issuing bans? Don’t they do that? I don’t understand. I think that just makes me not like Nordstrom. Yes, to those who would chime in here, Nordstrom can change its policies, no, Nordstrom doesn’t have to be nice to customers who’ve returned a lot, no, the customer doesn’t have to like it. But actually you know, most people have just been doing what the shop encouraged them to (makes customer base bigger, encourages customer loyalty, encourages more spending and is likely on balance to result in bigger profits, cost of returns is a manageable overhead, not an absolute loss to the company). So it would be really nice for us to be thoughtful towards those people here, just as thoughtful as @3threebabies has been.

And whisper it: if I’d returned 10 out of 10 items of moderate value for quite valid reasons, especially for anything that wasn’t as it appeared on screen (think bulldog clips at the back of dress) faulty or not fit for purpose, if they ban me, if I’d not already given up on them, but in the next months I was set to buy four £5000 handbags (I can dream!), 10 pairs of shoes and start rebuilding my designer wardrobe ... now I’ll go to Net-a-Porter instead because they’re quite keen to have my money and don’t make a fuss if a whole run of items ordered didn’t work out.

Above all, it’s the ecological issues that are desperately in need of addressing (though I doubt that has yet been Nordstrom’s first concern, except for potential public image reasons and also is an overall consumption issue).

Edited to add, it’s been pointed out to me that the poster had not said she had been banned, I misunderstood. So please read this post and my previous one in that light. I would still make the points about refusing invalid returns before warning, and warning before banning Thanks @sdkitty. :flowers:
 
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