You did well! It is stunning but there will be other amazing bags. You have to trust your judgment at the time when you actually had the bag in your possession. That was the ideal time to make the keep/not keep decision with clear eyes.During the NAS shopping mayhem, I noticed my dream (completely ridiculous but beautiful to me) Ferragamo bag was 70% off. I purchased it and could not justify keeping it due to $$$, and returned it. Now I can’t stop thinking about it. But it was SO impractical and I’d probably only wear it to art galleries, which I haven’t even set foot in since before the pandemic. (Also, it arrived thrown into a box in an open plastic bag, so it was not a thrilling experience to receive.)
Of course I am regretting returning it, even though it was the right choice for my wallet. But now I’m experiencing that “the one that got away” remorse. But it’s just a weird handbag! And it was heavy and totally ridiculous! Think I have shopping fatigue and have lost my mind. Thank goodness NAS is only once a year!
Might need emotional support during this difficult time. Is there a handbag remorse thread?
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If you truly regret the return, then take that amount of money and set it aside as a “when I see a bag I like even more” fund. That bag will (for sure) come along, and then you will be able to get it without hesitation.