NEED HELP!!

Both are great neutrals! Etain is cool and etoupe can read both ways. I personally prefer etoupe but RG hardware is tempting. Choose one that best works for your wardrobe and bag collection.
 
I don't like white contrast stitching on a birkin or Kelly after owning a couple so my vote goes for Etain. The big difference between two colors is that one has contrast stitching & one has tonal stitching.