I am so confused!! I already have the money for a new bag but I don't know what to get I have been eyeing the Tivoli PM for some time now but the only thing that holds me back is I can't wear it on my shoulder. The Tivoli GM is just too huge for my 5', 105 lb frame. I also like the Totally PM in Azur since it is a shoulder bag but I am worried about the color transfer. I am undecided about the Rivington Cabas...........opinions needed please.......what do I get. I was originally wanting a Shoulder Ebene bag so I can wear in the winter but I am not totally in love with any of them......ughh!!!!!