As always I’m so thankful for this forum, as reading the valuable and honest sharing makes me feel I’m not the only one. I have fantastic and warm treatment from other luxury brands, and I’m no big spender there. But at the brand I spend the most on, I feel all the things that you ladies talk about, and I always wonder am I the odd one out, why am I spending good money and not feeling good at all. Yes I got some very well made bags, but it all came at a huge monetary cost and emotionally very draining.
The relationship building is nauseating cos it’s built on spending. Even though I spend a lot, I’m told I’m no where near VIP level. And while waiting for my next bag, I feel the pressure to spend. I’ve ended up with many beautiful items for sure but I’m not sure if I need all these trinkets.
For the IG stories that tell of ‘wonderful Sas’ dropping wonderful surprises, I don’t think I’ll ever get to that wonderful stage. I also wonder how true those stories are.
I have started buying from resellers and while there is a high markup, guess what, I’m happy to pay. Zero drama, no emotional games, no pressure and best of all - zero waiting time.
Thank you for the comment. I agree the relationship building is nauseating. I've been purchasing Hermes for 20 years. I have had several SA because they no longer work there. Every time My SA leaves, I have to start rebuilding the relationship.
I travel to Hawaii every year and pick up souvenirs every year. and now even those stores are asking me to build relationship with the SA. and want you to spend before a bag is offered. It's hard to build when there is high turnover with the SA. or they are on vacation when I'm visiting or don't have the product at the location. I'm getting tired of playing their came.
I was told by one SA, it will be very difficult for her to offer me a demand bag because I have never purchased from her, although I appreciate her honesty. I felt s this where Hermes is headed to. Isn't it enough that I am a loyal customer and love the products. and I don't just buy bags. I buy other items because I love the it and not to meet the quota.
sorry for the long rant.....