No you're not bothering me at all! I like yourself had many questions as well and had I not found out all of this through questions and research then I would not have gone ahead with it when I did.
With the hair I didn't lose much if any at all. I just had a shower not long ago and tried to find the scar and couldn't find it. I have long hair so if you do also you would probably find it hard to see it.
It feels absolutely normal and I was able to sleep on my back once I had the bandage removed but I was just being careful as it was still sensitive after only 2 days post op but now it feels like I never had anything done. Also I wash my hair as normal but am careful not to dig my nails around that area just incase and only because Dr Song told me that it may be sensitive for the next 2 weeks after I had the staples removed. It's already been over 2 weeks but I guess I just want to be extra careful for now and it's become a habit lol.
Doctor Song told me not to do any intense exercise but I can't remember how long he said for. Sorry but I do remember reading on here from someone that was talking about not being able to do boxing or something like that.
It feels like normal when I touch it but rounder of course and that makes me happy
and you can use the hairdryer as normal. I used it as soon as I was allowed to wash my hair which was 4 days after surgery because Dr Song told me it was okay to