I am not yet 40, but will be in less than two years. I am careful now about my purchases as I want bags which I will be able to use even into my 40s and 50s. I like the menlimotant pm, but am quite hesitant because it might not look good on me in a couple of years. I find it so cute and lady like because of the pleats and am very fond of cross body bags. Do you think a menlimotant pm will grow old with me or will it look too young for me in a few years? Would really appreciate your honest opinion ladies. TIA!