Oh I so understand your dilemma in making a choice! I purchased an armaranto Selene with a turquoise lining and gold hardware just prior to Xmas. I brought the bag with me to a conference in NYC last week and it was the perfect bag! I could not have been more pleased with the size, usefulness, ease of carrying and color. I also purchased a phoebe in the same color combination to use inside of the Selene and again that worked great.
I have a small laptop and I was able to put it in the Selene for meetings in the lobby area of the hotel. It fit perfectly, along with a water bottle, small pad of paper, the phoebe, gloves (it was very, very cold) and a few other assorted items. I wore it with a grey down coat and it was a terrific pop of color. It also matched the clothing selection I had for the conference including a red dress, red tweed jacket and black dress perfectly. I wore mostly grey and black casual clothes during the non business hours and again it worked great.
The color is more red than I originally expected, although a beautiful red. I was somehow thinking it was going to be more of a Marsala color (color of 2015.).
While the full size Selene is large it is a perfect tote and I have not put down since starting to use almost two weeks go. And The color is so happy!
I took a few pictures with my mobile phone. I'll try to upload a little later today. Hopefully this is helpful to your decision making process!