I think I will like that it tapers at the top (from the side view) so that it looks like it will fit close to the body when carried. And I have had mud verona, so I know I love that.
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Ladies I saw this on Facebook a minute ago and cannot resist sharing with you to see if you agree with me on the fallacy of one little bitty part of it . 
I agree that material things don't guarantee happiness, but nice things and good relationships with friends and family aren't mutually exclusive. The people living in the $100,000 house could be much more miserable than the family in the $300,000 house. It depends on what a person's priorities are. I love being able to buy nice bags, but would give my bag money to a family member in need.
I have found if I purchase items that are cheaper and have an inferior quality I have to replace them more often. If I buy a better quality it lasts longer. I cannot tell you how many cheap wallets I have bought and replaced. Eventually I land up paying the same amount of money for all the cheap ones instead of buying the better one in the first place. Although I agree material goods don't buy you happiness.
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I agree. I'm a value shopper rather than a price shopper, within limits of course.
Ladies, I meant this as a joke and the only part I was referring to is the expensive bag versus the $30 one. Those of us on TPF are a very small minority of people who appreciate fine leather, fine workmanship, etc. Very few people understand our interest in and money spent on handbags. The rest of it I, of course, agree with. Friends, family, good health, a beautiful flower, an act of kindness, helping someone in need....all of these are more important than material things. My hubby plays lots of golf, LOTS. That is his hobby. Mine is handbags and we spend about the same amount. so it is all in your perspective.
A poor joke on my part I suppose, mea culpa!
A poor joke on my part I suppose, mea culpa!
I understood what you meant. [emoji1] Of course material things are secondary to more important ones, but in my opinion it’s nothing wrong to appreciate them too, just on a different level. I’m sure most of the people here on TPF enjoy a life little more with beautiful handbag instead of the ugly one (which, of course, is a matter of taste too). [emoji4]
I actually loved the discussion around this I feel it provided some good thoughts. Even if it was meant to be a joke and boy I got it when it came to leather handbags. My husband rolls his eyes at the arrival of handbags from Italy. His passion is tools and equipment for his workshop, all kinds of stuff so whenever he wants to buy another power tool I am more than happy to oblige his passion knowing that he loves all these different tools and pieces of equipment. He has spent the last 8 weeks building a beautiful summer kitchen as we live in Florida. It is so nice to see him building stuff and enjoying his hobby and interest and I will definitely enjoy the fruits of his labor. As I will enjoy carrying my lovely MM handbags.
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View attachment 4115183 Ladies I saw this on Facebook a minute ago and cannot resist sharing with you to see if you agree with me on the fallacy of one little bitty part of it .
The last thing is of course true, that lasting happiness comes from good relationships. Of course, your basic Maslow tiers must be complete too: shelter, safety, and all that. The rest of it, I don’t think I agree with. My Citizen Eco watch tells the same time as a $30 watch, sure, but it also doesn’t need its batteries changed every year. Beat that! A good car will keep you safer in an accident than junk on wheels. There is a reason German cars command a premium around the world. And you’ll be happier in a nice house in a safe neighborhood than a $100k house in a bad neighborhood, where you’re worried your car will be stolen or there will be street violence. The biggest premium for real estate in the end is location, and location has a lot to do with happiness.
I think most people grow to appreciate quality and luxury more as they grow older, not the opposite. For those of us here, for example, it’s not about brand name we care about but the quality of leather and customer service. And everyone has their vice (skipping the misers). For some people, it’s traveling. I travelled a lot in my college days and 20s and am honestly satisfied. I don’t crave exotic places anymore. Now I rather have handbags and jewelry
My DH has always hated travel. Give him electronics. Some people love fine dining. Others like entertaining and parties. Whatever sparks your joy!Also, don’t worry about your joke! We like discussions!
I like myself some nice things. I don't care for Bentley and love my Toyota. But sure I prefer to pay more for something that will make my heart sing.
All but one of my close friends live abroad. I need to travel if I want to see them in person. I need money for such good time, too. I mostly fly economy, but if it's a long haul, I do upgrade some time. It's OK to be materialistic to make your life easier and more pleasant. I don't care much as long as we know what we're doing, keep ourselves in check, and don't create problem or hurt anyone else.
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I just post my reply right after I saw your first post and don't know if I get your joke right. I guess I do, but let's hope I didn't offend anyone.
I think it's a nice way to remind people of what we should also think about. Because everyday we get bombarded with the idea of buy and buy and so much temptation.
Well, I think everyone should just make it at their comfort level and stay out of trouble.
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Vink, you never offend! You are always sweet.I just post my reply right after I saw your first post and don't know if I get your joke right. I guess I do, but let's hope I didn't offend anyone.
I think it's a nice way to remind people of what we should also think about. Because everyday we get bombarded with the idea of buy and buy and so much temptation.
Well, I think everyone should just make it at their comfort level and stay out of trouble.
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This is an awesome discussion! Just speaking for myself, I have to constantly question whether I *think* something is worth spending my money or if it actually is with respect to my health and well-being. I've noticed that, as an outlet for stress or generalized anxiety, it's easy to fall prey to the exposure to marketing of whatever sort and think I need to have a certain possession. Sometimes I will spend and regret it or not know how I made that decision so easily when it really wasn't the right one.
At the same time, I am firmly in the camp of quality when I can afford it/where it's appropriate for the ease of being that can bring. Good food, a safe house and car, a decent work place are all things I currently enjoy for the most part. I am grateful for that every single day, as it hasn't always been the case.
None of that means that I don't adore gorgeous things in their own right! We all share our different taste and the joy we have in realizing it through MM bags (among other things). I might have an unreasonable love for beautiful handbags
- it's also something that comes with me every where I go even on the most mundane of days.
At the same time, I am firmly in the camp of quality when I can afford it/where it's appropriate for the ease of being that can bring. Good food, a safe house and car, a decent work place are all things I currently enjoy for the most part. I am grateful for that every single day, as it hasn't always been the case.
None of that means that I don't adore gorgeous things in their own right! We all share our different taste and the joy we have in realizing it through MM bags (among other things). I might have an unreasonable love for beautiful handbags
- it's also something that comes with me every where I go even on the most mundane of days.Speaking of my unreasonable love for handbags, I ordered a Mud Verona Calista today. It's been on my wish list for a very long time. I requested as much color modulation as possible, within Marcos' supply. We shall see what he comes up with but the variation in the Verona leather is one of the things that consistently attracts me to it.
My sample sale Tulipano arrived today and I love it! It's interesting as I wasn't initially sure what to think of it. But mine has painted edges, which is pleasing to me, so maybe that's why, and I don't mind the raw interior at all, it feels like suede. Also, it is really quite big. I feel like it's about the size of Angelica but it fits a lot more, even my A4 folders. Photos when it's not a wet and gloomy day!