^^^We have to take risks to live a normal life, driving is a risk isn't it? My point is that I do not think JLo is being an irresponsible mother for wearing heals. Call her daring or a risk taker but it is harsh to call her irresponsible. Let her make a few mistakes as a mother is all I am saying, we all learn from our mistakes. Did you not make your share of mistakes as a mother Debbie Downer?